We are very close with a couple - the woman was a VERY VERY close friend to me and the man is still a very close and dear friend. Recently this friend walked out of their marriage because she didn't feel like being married anymore (her words, not mine). She is expecting me to be there for her and to listen to her and to remain friends but I feel I cannot support her during this time because of the way she handled whatever hardship she is experiencing.

I support her husband at this point and feel guilty and confused about all this.

Have you ever had to choose a side? How do you handle the situation when close friends of yours are divorcing? I WANT to ignore both of them until they settle things on their own but not sure if that's the right thing to do...