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  • poll: How did you meet your SO.
    Through friends : (48 votes)
    47 %
    Through parents : (5 votes)
    5 %
    Online (eharmony/chemistry.com) : (22 votes)
    22 %
    Random happenstance (bumped into each other at a strip club, or less awesome option) : (27 votes)
    26 %
  1. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    At work. Oops! He was transferred to my office and when he walked in the first day there was immediate, mutual attraction. It took us a few months to start dating, but the rest is history.

  2. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    We were set up by his father and my ex's mother's best friend. Just a bit awkward

  3. Cherrybee

    papaya / 10570 posts

    It was a cross between a random chance meeting and mutual friend. I was in a club and I bumped into an old friend I hadn't seen for a couple of years. As I was chatting to him, a gorgeous guy came and stood next to us. My friend introduced him as his new housemate. Housemate-guy worked at the club, doing the sound for the live bands. I chatted to housemate-guy for a little while then throughout the evening we would bump into each other, have a little chat... The next day, I stalked my old friend's Facebook to find his housemate and added him as a friend! The following weekend, I dragged my mates back to to that club hoping to bump into housemate-guy and sure enough he was there. As we were "friends" now, he joined us after the live music had finished and the rest is history!

  4. jillybean218

    cherry / 165 posts

    I didn't vote either because we met in high school. Buy we were only friends and stayed that way until we were 23! Then I moved across the country after college and he was the only thing I missed about home.

  5. GrapeCrush

    grapefruit / 4823 posts

    my brother's then girlfriend wanted to set me up with one of her co-workers....I adamantly refused, met him one night at their apartment and said absolutely not, don't like him(I even told him I didn't like him) and that was that....so I thought. about a month later we went out to happy hour and she invited him(she had given up on us getting together, she just invited him because he was going through a rough time with school/family), there hasn't been a day since that we haven't spoken to each other :o) I guess sometimes you just need a little alcohol to break the ice lol

  6. Mrs. Polish

    blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts

    @kjpugs: oh my gosh! That is so funny!

  7. Mrs. Polish

    blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts

    I didn't vote. We met in elementary school, started dating in high school.

  8. MrsSCB

    pomelo / 5257 posts

    We met in high school. He actually tricked me into our first date! We were just sort of acquaintances, and he got a mutual friend to ask if I wanted to go bowling with him, another friend, and my now husband. I said, "Sure, why not?" Then my husband got our friend to call and say, "Actually, [other friend] and I can't come...." and then my husband called right after and was like, "I hear [friends] can't go bowling anymore, do you still want to go?" I said, "Sure, why not?" That was our first date and the rest is history! This was nine years ago

  9. regberadaisy

    GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts

    Through college - we were in the same major. Didn't vote bc none of your options apply to me!

  10. Mrs. Jump Rope

    blogger / coconut / 8306 posts

    I love all of these stories!

    We met through mutual friends. He went to college friends with my best friends cousin, and we were all together one night. We've been together since that night, which was a little over seven years ago!

  11. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    @MediaNaranja: awww, i love your story!

  12. mrs. bird

    bananas / 9628 posts

    @Penny Lane: haha , thanks! it was kind of ridiculously hot, there's a part of me kicking myself for not taking pictures- mostly of a body i will NEVER have again =D

  13. aprk

    pomegranate / 3452 posts

    @Smurfette: that's cute!!

  14. swurlygurl

    honeydew / 7091 posts

    In the dorms. I didn't like him at first because he had an accent (midwest, not a cool foreign one). He eventually won me over

  15. petunia354

    pomegranate / 3863 posts

    mutual friends....boring!!

  16. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    We met because of my stepdad. He said he knew my DH and I would make a good match, so he invited him to play a role in an independent film I was in (a cheesy horror movie). We liked each other right away, but didn't start dating for a couple months because of the age gap.

  17. Springtime

    pomegranate / 3204 posts

    Facebook! I've always known who he was but he never knew me until I randomly added him and then he messaged me and we started hanging out and the rest is history!

  18. Modern Daisy

    grapefruit / 4187 posts

    I can't vote in the poll because we met at work! First jobs out of college

  19. Smurfette

    GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts

    @aprk: Everyone was making fun of us all night cause we didn't leave each other sides all night.

  20. Carol A.

    pea / 24 posts

    He is my good friend's brother!
    I was living in California and he was in Miami. He came over for Thanksgiving at his sister's and they invited me also. We met for the first time there.
    We became friends at first, then started dating long distance. Now we're married and living in Miami!

  21. Crisark

    pomegranate / 3398 posts

    Online- Plentyoffish.com

  22. greenebee

    cherry / 189 posts

    Doing a musical both of us did NOT want to be a part of, one summer! I guess something told us to go ahead and accept the parts. We didn't play opposite each other (in fact, I don't think our characters interacted at all), but he kept thinking of different ways to start conversations with me and I kept "accidentally" forgetting my dance bag and having to go back to get it to spend more time with him! Our first date was not him sweetly/awkwardly inviting me out. He told me we were going to a movie and dinner and that I should pick and date/time. Loved that! Officially began dating on July 4th (he says, so we can always have fireworks) - married July 14th!

  23. singingbee

    pomelo / 5073 posts

    We met online at Eharmony.

  24. Ash

    honeydew / 7909 posts

    DH and I were set up on a blind date by his sister and my mom... We lived 3 hours away from each other and went on a "date" if you will with my mom and his sister. I knew the second I laid eyes on him that I would marry him (I even told my mom that night). I remember it like it was yesterday!

  25. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    We met through mutual friends through a chance encounter. I was at the bowling alley with a friend and he was at the bowling alley with a couple of friends one of which was a girl I knew from high school. I reconnected with her and then we all started hanging out and he asked me out not too long after that!

  26. dolphin

    pomegranate / 3768 posts

    at a club! hollaaaa.

  27. lawbee11

    GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts

    @greenebee: Did you officially begin dating and get married in the same year?!

  28. greenebee

    cherry / 189 posts

    @lawbee11: haha! no! I should have added that we were together for four years before getting married.

  29. MrsTiz

    cantaloupe / 6800 posts

    His cousin messaged me on Myspace when I was 12 (cousin was 13) and said he lived in the same neighborhood as I did. So I took my sister and he brought DH and we walked to the corner and met up! I actually "dated" his cousin for a few months!

    DH was supposed to be for my sister since they are the same age, but he 'd me instead hah!

  30. cmbknyc

    kiwi / 630 posts

    We met on match.com but only bec my sister knew him and had worked for him. He didn't remember her but she remembered him - turns out we had friends in common from when we both lived overseas in highschool.

  31. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    His sister is a friend of mine and wanted to hook us up. Neither of us were interested but we met at a party and we've been together since the first day we saw each other.

  32. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    @sarac: I used to play Counterstrike with my guy friends all the time in college!! It's rare for me to find anyone who did that, too!

  33. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    We met at a wedding. My old college roommate happened to be his cousin!

  34. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    We met at work. We both started within a couple weeks of each other. We were in a training class and he was standing with another guy and girl that looked about our age, so I went over and said hi. We were friends for 3 years before we got together :). And all of us are still friends and have all been to each other's weddings in the years since :).

  35. jmarionsmith

    nectarine / 2132 posts

    online!

  36. sarac

    pomelo / 5093 posts

    @MrsKoala: Amazing! I was more into Science and Industry, personally, but all of my friends played CS. We all worked tech support at a big university, and hosted big lan parties in our spare time. Fun days! That was more than a decade ago, and we're still friends. Now my husband and I have a toddler, and we're really excited for the day that she's old enough to play video games with us.

  37. Glitter

    persimmon / 1281 posts

    We met at church.

  38. heffalump

    GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts

    Temple.

    We went to the same temple our whole lives but he's 5 years older so we didn't know each other. After graduating I moved home and went to temple often. He never went..... except that night because his friend was being deported so a bunch of them went to pray for him. His friends are my brother's friends too so I went over to say hi to them.... and there he was. I remember thinking, "He's cute, he's Jewish, and he seems put together. I'd like to marry someone like that."

  39. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    I didn't vote. We met through our college group at church, but didnt start dating until I graduated and he was at a college 2 hours away!

  40. .twist.

    pineapple / 12802 posts

    Um. We met at a kink show. I knew his brother and his brother introduced us there.

    He was working as the doorman/bouncer and I was there in an itty bitty corset/mini skirt. I may or may not have taken most of the outfit off at one point.....

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