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I think I pronounce it somewhere in between -- sort of like gram but with a soft double syllable. So, gra-am where the dash is just a very quick break in the "a" sound...if that makes sense.

I say gram too. Never heard of the other pronunciation.

I have a friend who lives in Australia, and her dad's name was Graeme-it was the first time I'd heard it pronounced Gray-em instead of like the cracker. However, friends of ours in Chicago refer to their Graham as Gray-em...even though we all call him Gram (like the cracker). Very interesting!

I say gram, because I'm American and that's how we say it, but every time I have ever had to say the name in Australia or the UK, I have been made fun of beyond belief! DH and several of my English friends regularly tease me about it. I am working on saying Gray-um but it still sounds so awkward so I try to avoid saying it as much as possible!

Gram, I'm in the Midwest, only way I've heard it pronounced.

Gray-ahm. But only since i dated someone with that name and his mom was British and he insisted Gram was wrong and would get upset if i pronounced his name wrong! Before that i used to say Gram.