DH and I met at work and then dated for 8 mo before we got engaged. I always feel like that was on the quicker side so I'm curious - how long did you date your SO before getting engaged?
DH and I met at work and then dated for 8 mo before we got engaged. I always feel like that was on the quicker side so I'm curious - how long did you date your SO before getting engaged?
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
Two years and two months.
We got married the day after our 2.5 year "anniversary"
coconut / 8854 posts
Just under 3 years, but I think we would have been ready after 1 year! But then we would have only been 19
pomelo / 5469 posts
We were good friends for 4yrs before we starting dating and then it was another 4yrs until we got engaged.
ETA: I find this thread really interesting... I always thought our 4yrs was a pretty short time. But compared to alot of ladies here that isnt the case. Most of my friends got engaged after at least 5yrs and a lot of close friends have gotten engaged recently after about 8+ yrs. I wonder it is some kind of culture/expectation differences between the UK and elsewhere... Or maybe just the people I know!
coconut / 8498 posts
A little over a year and a half. We would have gotten engaged much, much sooner (like 5 months in), but I was still in school.
nectarine / 2765 posts
Over 4 years. And we lived together most of that time. Needless to say, I was getting impatient : )
persimmon / 1331 posts
6.5 years! We were in waiting on me graduating college and getting a job!
grapefruit / 4187 posts
About 1.5 years and I still give DH a hard time for taking so long to propose!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
11 months. We met a exactly a year before we got engaged.
apricot / 340 posts
10 months before we got engaged. then we married a year and 3 months later.
watermelon / 14206 posts
We didn't have a formal engagement...we were married a year after we met. Sometime during that year we just decided we'll get married at some point in the near future, lol.
apricot / 280 posts
6 years. Most people think thats crazy long but it was perfect for us. We grew so much together and had the chance to start our lives long before we were married. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't change a thing.
pear / 1570 posts
@Mrs. Bee: Same here on the being ready! I think we both 'knew' after about a month or two.
pomelo / 5041 posts
4 months. We'd worked together for years prior though, so it wasn't quite that shotgun.
coconut / 8305 posts
Dated 1 month before getting engaged. (We were friends for 2 years before dating)
pomelo / 5720 posts
We dated briefly in high school then reconnected 10+ years later. We dated for 1.5 years before getting engaged.
kiwi / 629 posts
It was about 7 years I think.... too long in my opinion, but it seems that I'm just one of those people who has to wait a bit longer for what they want.
I was ready after 3, so it got pretty dramatic sometimes. Didn't help that quite literally ALL my friends got married during those 7 years.
papaya / 10473 posts
@Mrs. Bee: @littlebittyhouse: 6 months for us too! But DH told me when we'd been dating for only 2 months that he was booking a trip and he planned to propose to me while we were there
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
Right at a year! Started dating early Dec 2009, engaged Xmas 2010
grapefruit / 4703 posts
5.5 years. We were 18/19 when we started dating so I think of it more as like 2.5 "grown-up" years (after I graduated).
pear / 1570 posts
@grizz: where did you get engaged??
so corny but DH proposed in front of Cinderella's castle during the fireworks ::swoon::
papaya / 10473 posts
@littlebittyhouse: Sanibel, FL on the beach. My friend from high school is a photographer there and without my knowledge, he booked a photo shoot with her... I thought we were just getting some nice pics, but he proposed during! Cinderella's castle is beautiful! That's a sweet proposal!
pear / 1812 posts
4 years. But we met when I was a senior in HS and he was a freshman in college. We waited until my Jr. year in college to get engaged. We got married a year and a half later, 2 months after I graduated. It was perfect for us. And a year and a half after that, we found out we were pregnant!
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