I always had a vision of having 3 kids, since I was younger I always said I wanted to have 3 kids. Well...now I have two kids and that is plenty enough for me. I don't know if it's just because I am struggling with the terrible 3's and them always fighting or what.
How many kids did you always think you wanted? How many kids do you have?
pomelo / 5678 posts
I am always open to any number. However, I get extremely sick with HG, that's the only thing that ever made me reconsider!
pomegranate / 3355 posts
2 is what I wanted... have 1 ttc 2 so hopefully 2 will become a reality... I need all the luck 
cherry / 127 posts
I always wanted 3. I only have 1 right now, and we'll likely add 1 more to the mix and we'll be done.
honeydew / 7283 posts
We had always wanted 3. Now we have 2 and that might be enough 
We'll see!
pomelo / 5660 posts
Growing up I wanted 0. Once married, we settled on 3. We will have 3.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Growing up I wanted 3! We have two now and I'm waiver between being done and having a third!
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
I always wanted 2, and have 2, but I don't think that we are complete and need one more. Both our parents had 3 so I think we are destined too!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
I figured I'd have 2...and now that i have 2, i was thinking 3-4. Now I'm thinking 4.
pineapple / 12793 posts
I have two, pregnant with three, always wanted four. My delivery with three will probably make the decision on four for us. We'll see.
grapefruit / 4731 posts
I always wanted more than one but no more than 4... so the number would be either 2, 3 or 4. I always kind of thought 3. I have 2 right now and I'm on the fence on having a 3rd but we won't be able to have another one for a while. So we have a lot of time to think about it. 
pear / 1852 posts
We both always pictured three, but then reality set in, and we figure we can't realistically afford 3, so we're settling for 2.
ttc #2 right now.
I think it was be hilarious after all the discussions we had on this topic if God sent us curveball and gives us twins, lol
pineapple / 12053 posts
always wanted 3, have 2 and planning on the 3rd in a few years.
persimmon / 1188 posts
I used to think 3 would be nice, but my husband wasn't even sure about 1 so we agreed to 2 and we'll see how it goes after that. Now we have 1 and 2 will be the maximum. He isn't sold on 2 even though he loves being a dad.
cantaloupe / 6059 posts
I have two and have always wanted 3-4. We will be TTC number 3 soon.
grapefruit / 4997 posts
I always wanted 4 kids but we had such a late start and IF issues so we'll be done at 2, DD #2 due in January.
nectarine / 2115 posts
I always wanted 4. DH is not on board, though, and it makes better sense for us to stop with two. My second and last baby is due in March
papaya / 10570 posts
I always wanted 3.... then I had one thought, perhaps, I nay stop at 1! Now I'm expecting #2, I'm pining for 3 again.
DH wants 2 so I expect we will stop at 2.
grapefruit / 4819 posts
Always wanted three and currently pregnant with #3! After this though, I am done, done, done!
pomegranate / 3350 posts
@Bao: Same as you. I always thought 3 but am feeling pretty content with 2. There was a 6 month window where I said we'd have to conceive our 3rd if there were to be one and it starts next month. I'm not ready so we may just be done.
persimmon / 1322 posts
I have always wanted 3. We will likely stop at 2 for financial and logistical reasons.
pomegranate / 3764 posts
Always dreamed of 3; desperately wanting 2; may be only 1.
And that 1 is amazing... brilliant... worth waiting for... but I am completely gutted that my dream is seemingly not in the cards for us. 
pomelo / 5628 posts
I have always wanted two, now we are done at one and part of me wants three...I love my life with one, but it doesn't feel quite right at holidays.
apricot / 343 posts
It depends on how long it takes to get pregnant with #2. I've always wanted 4 growing up (I'm the youngest of 4) but I am just taking it one baby at a time
cantaloupe / 6131 posts
We wanted at least two, possibly 3, as many as 4. Physically pregnancy is brutal on me so we are done with 2 bio kids but would be open to fostering or adopting later on if it's in the cards for us.
pomegranate / 3983 posts
I've always wanted 4; pregnant with number 3 now and I'm not sure anymore....pregnancy is hard for me so this could be the last one.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Always wanted two and have 3. 4 would be awesome.
honeydew / 7909 posts
I always wanted 2 (dh wanted 6) but I changed my mind after having 1 to being one and done. We have 2. And we're done.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
I also always wanted 3 but I'm feeling maxed at 2. At least with this age gap. Maybe I'll change my mind but right now I'm done. Its not just the kids either. My body is taking awhile to adjust hormonally and I'm just done!
honeydew / 7622 posts
I never really dreamt of being a Mother. I warmed up to the idea when it was clear how badly DH wanted it. Now that 1 is going well I expect we will have another- he said he would not be opposed to 3. I doubt that will happen.
cherry / 103 posts
I always figured I'd have more then 1. Currently have my hands full with 2. My husband wants more, maybe when they are a bit older
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