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2. Sometimes I see a picture of a bigger family and long for a 3rd.

2. DH wants to be one and done.

DD is only 4 months old & while I want to enjoy her babyhood & just focus on her for a while...we've already started picking names & planning the birth of #2! I want 3, he wants 2. My heart is really set on 3. I love love love being a mom.

I'm torn between 2 and 3!

I want 3 kids badly! But I'm just now pregnant with the first and it's hard imagining having two more. I come from family of 3 and it was always so fun growing up...2 against 1, the two olders doting on the littlest one, etc. My parents say when you have 3 or more kids, it seems overwhelming in the moment, especially when they are young. But when they're all grown up and they come home to visit, it's fun having a full house and suddenly 3 doesn't seem like a lot and they wish they had more.

I definitely want two, but I'm open to the idea of three, hubs though will need convincing to even go to two.
Of course this might all change once I actually get pregnant and give birth, my SIL was very in to the idea of having 2-3 but after her first she was in the 'Never Again!' camp, although now, two years on, she seems to be softening to the idea again.

I've never had a set number in my head. We're just taking it one kid at a time. Right now we have one, and I know I'd still like another baby, so at least two at this point. After we eventually have baby #2 is when I'll decide about a #3 . I'm open to however many ends up working for us.