I will undoubtedly forget to post this tomorrow, so I'll start it today. I have to be at my grandmas at 5am to start on Thanksgiving dinner and will be ready for bed by mid afternoon. 
What are you thankful for? (I know we're not all US bees...but it's still a valid question.)
Any updates?
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I'm thankful for food on our table and for the strength of our marriage. I have many more things, but those are at the top. I don't want to say it, but I'm even thankful for infertility because we probably wouldn't have our son without it.
I don't have any updates. I just told dh that my fingers are cramping (it's weird, I think from the cold) and he asked if I was starting my knuckle period.
Speaking of, still no show on AF. I stopped counting the days.
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Mrs. Polish: 5am?? I bet your Grandma is very thankful for YOU! And OMG, knuckle period! You two are hilarious.
I'm going to give the standard thankful answer. I am very thankful that I have supportive friends, family, and DH. In the past few months we have started sharing our story and just about everyone has been super supportive and caring. I couldn't have asked for anything better.
No updates... Just waiting for a call back from the doctor's office to give me the go ahead to start Lovenox. The syringes are ready any waiting...
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@Mrs.Someone: we have dinner at 1p, so it's a tradition now. We love cooking together and it isn't a bother at all. 
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Mrs. Polish: Good idea to start one today.
I'm thankful that I have an amazing husband. We've definitely had our troubles but IF has actually made us stronger. It was rough at first but things are so much better than it was before.
I'm thankful to have food on the table and a roof over my head.
Updates: IUI #3 was cancelled. DH wasn't able to provide a sample yesterday for my IUI. 
This was the second time an IUI was cancelled. I got my RE to approve DH freezing his sperm as a back up for situations like this. So we are hopeful that we won't have anymore cycles like this. Total bummer to waste $200 on all the meds (femera and trigger shot) and not go through with an IUI. But I'm thinking of the future and not the past. 2014 is going to be our year!!
If I get my period by Dec 9th, we might be able to fit another IUI before Christmas. I'm a little excited but also not getting myself too excited if AF is late. I wasn't planning on doing a cycle during the month of Dec because I didn't think it would work with the travel I'm doing at the end of Dec. So I won't be all that bummed if we miss December and have to do our last and final IUI in January. I'm still looking forward to IVF in February if our IUI doesn't work.
Happy Thanksgiving to all!!
kiwi / 563 posts
Happy Thanksgiving!
I'm thankful for family, friends and my hubs (what does DH stand for??). Also thankful to have found this board for support.
Update: Today is day 6 in IUI #2 cycle, so started clomid last night. Am a little nervous, as have heard that side effects can be bad, especially emotional - I'm emotional enough as it is, so am hoping it's smooth sailing for us. Hubs started clomid too, in attempts to improve testosterone numbers, so we're literally in this together!
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@SunshineMcC: DH stands for Dear Husband. Or when he does something annoying, it can mean Darn/Damn Husband. I don't use DH in real life but it's so much easier writing DH instead of husband on the forums.
Here's a list of some other abbreviations that are used here on HB. http://www.hellobee.com/2011/09/29/ttc-pregnancy-parenting-acronyms/
pomelo / 5000 posts
@SunshineMcC: clomid wasn't that bad, emotionally speaking, for me--hope the same goes for you!
@Mrs. Polish: that is funny and reminds me of something my husband would say. I often think that silliness is the glue that binds us together.
@bluestriped bee: cheers to that positive attitude! 2014 will be a great year.
Update: Cycle 14(ish) is officially a flop. I admit that this morning I had a little daydream that I might find out I was actually pregnant this morning at the RE--hope springs eternal! They were really pleased at how my body responded to the injectables last time though, and if I want, I'll follow the exact protocol as last time.
I'm thankful for my family, marriage, and health. And since she's staring at me right now, I'll give a special shout out to our furry, oh so cute, German Shepherd!
cantaloupe / 6131 posts
Hi there, I'm sorta new here. I was on WB and HB a few years ago when we were TTC. We had 2 MCs, one in December 2011, and one in July 2012. Turns out I had a brain tumor, which I had successful surgery for in November 2012. The tumor was up against my pituitary gland, so the doctors think its caused hormonal imbalances that contributed to my MCs. Its been a year post-op and I've only had 3 periods. Gave myself a year to recuperate and as of last week, was told by my primary care team that I would need to see fertility specialists to TTC. This is further complicated by the fact that my tumor cells respond to female hormone factors, so its not clear yet what I'm in for. I haven't had my first consult yet, but we're filling out the paperwork and trying to line up the money to deal with it. My insurance will cover 50% of everything up until IVF, but its still a lot of money. I thought I'd come back to HB to get some moral support as we start this journey. Hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving!
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Happygal: Sorry to hear it was a flop, but its great that you responded well to the protocol!
pomelo / 5228 posts
@gingerbebe: Oh goodness, what a rough few years you've had. Glad you seem to be over the hump at least health-wise. We're glad to have you here! Moral support is what we do best
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I'm thankful for my four frozen embryos. I hope they grow into babies.
Everything is going smoothly so far. I had an appointment this morning and my estrogen levels look good. I'm starting estrogen patches Friday.
@gingerbebe: you've certainly had quite the journey so far!
@SunshineMcC: I didn't have any side effects on Clomid. Hopefully it won't be too bad for you!
pomelo / 5228 posts
Ugh, I hate waiting for the phone to ring. I called the doc's office this morning in hopes of getting my test results. Its 3pm and I still haven't heard back. I called the lab to check if they were finalized and they have been. I'm hoping that the nurse is just waiting for the doctor to read them before getting back to me...
What time should I call again? I'm not sure how late their office is open...
pomelo / 5228 posts
Yay, I guess my complaining here did the trick. The doctor actually called me himself (a little shocked). 2 of the antibodies they checked are elevated, so I am to start the Lovenox tomorrow morning!
pomelo / 5000 posts
@Mrs.Someone: I'm so glad they got back to you! Whoo hoo for Lovenox! I'm really hoping this will do the trick for you.
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Happygal: Thanks! I really think it will. Though I think that for every new thing I try
Also, don't ever read the massive handout that comes with these types of drugs. I saw a chart about hemorrhages and decided to quickly stop looking at it, yikes.
eggplant / 11861 posts
I am so very thankful for my DH this past year he has shown me sides of him I new was there bit not to the level he has shown! He has been my rock and so supportive! I'm also thankful that we have jobs and the finances to even have the oppurtunity to go down the IF road!
Update: Just waiting on AF last time it did not come after the Crinone and I had to take provera hoping it comes on its own had cramps today!
Wishing all HB a happy and healthy Holiday!!!!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@gingerbebe: what a story, glad to hear you are back!!! Best of luck to you!!!!!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@bluestriped bee: Good luck hoping we both can get a Christmas IUI in
eggplant / 11861 posts
@SunshineMcC: Clomid just gave me awful hotflashes but nothing i couldn't handel....I know this may sound weird but kinda cool you and DH can go through the clomid madness together!
pomelo / 5000 posts
@gingerbebe: welcome! You have already been through so much--I hope your stay here will be short.
@Leialou: yeah! Exciting times.
nectarine / 2600 posts
Hey gals, I've been totally MIA since my last loss. For those who don't know I found out the day before I left for my vacation in the US that my 3rd pregnancy was doomed. I started mc'ing Nov. 1 in NJ. Trying to make a long story short: since I've been back in Switzerland, I saw my RE and she basically doesn't have a clue, (awesome) but will treat me as if I have a blood clotting disorder. The plan is to start Puregon (follistim) again on CD5, then 2 days after trigger start with 100mg of Aspirin. Then 3 days after that start with Clexane (Heparin-blood thinner) injections. ::sigh::
Also I was recommended an OBGYN in town by a client/friend. I didn't really have an OBGYN yet, so this is good, plus he may be able to offer more insight or a 2nd opinion. I see him Dec. 12 for the first time.
This was my "Thankful" list from FB: "I'm thankful that I got to see my friends and family in NJ and VA just a few short weeks ago. I'm thankful for my awesome husband. And because I'm trying to feel better about myself, here's a list of other things I'm thankful for: vacations, money, a nice apartment, my folks, my Swiss family, the friends I've made here, the clients who've turned into friends, my adopted "fur kids," still being the same size (relatively) that I was in college, my niece, Netflix and Hulu, good healthcare. And cupcakes."
Thanksgiving dinner was just my husband and I, but it was nice and everything turned out good. Except dessert Oh well!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@TheSwissWifeStyle: I am oh so sorry abour your loss, hugs and prayers to you! I'm glad you have a game plan ready to go that helps things!
I hope your new OB is great!
Hahah I like the comment about being the same size as in HS...I have to say I've strayed over the past 10 yrs nothing crazy but today I'm prob super close if not right there :))) IF make me eat better and I cut out a lot of thjngs when I start meds so I guess that is a good thing!!!! :))
Happy Holidays! Hope you get your H&H baby oon!
pomelo / 5228 posts
@TheSwissWifeStyle: Glad to see you back! I just started Lovenox injections yesterday (a low-dose heparin). So far its no big deal, and I'm really hopeful it will do the trick for both of us!
pomelo / 5228 posts
@TheSwissWifeStyle: Nope! I was told it would, but it was a piece of cake. The medicine itself burned a tiny bit maybe 5 minutes later, but no big deal.
pomelo / 5000 posts
@TheSwissWifeStyle: hi! I was just thinking about you the other day and I'm glad you checked in with us. I'm so sorry for your loss and a lack of a strong doctor and guidance. I'm eager to hear what the new doctor may have to say!
@Mrs.Someone: yeah! I'm glad the shot was no big deal.
kiwi / 533 posts
I am thankful for my wonderful husband, and the life we have. I have been thinking about our journey a lot lately, and I think we have written a great story thus far. =)
Any updates? I am on cycle day 14. I will be getting my progesterone blood draw next Friday... so in the waiting game.
cherry / 195 posts
I'm really late to the party this week - we've had house guests since Tuesday. I'm looking forward to an empty house!
I am thankful for my husband, for the amazingly supportive IF friends I've made here on HB and elsewhere, and I'm very thankd for reproductive technology and doctors and science.
I have a kind of big update: I triggered on 11/30 at 11:30pm, and my first IUI is scheduled for Monday at 11:30 am (CST). I'm nervous and excited - hopefully at least 1 of my 2 good looking follicles lead to a 
pomelo / 5000 posts
@just_ju: that is a long visit! Even with best friends, I'm ready to have an empty house after awhile. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow--let us know how it goes!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@just_ju: Yay, will be thinking of you! Is this your first IUI ever?!?
cherry / 195 posts
@Happygal: thank you! Planning to update tomorrow afternoon
@FaithFertility: yep, I'm an IUI newbie. Checking one more thing off the list!
pomelo / 5000 posts
@mrs bunchy: that's a beautiful way to phrase it--writing a story together. Nice.
@mrs. someone: how is lovenox treating you?
@just_ju: thinking of you today! Let us know how the IUI went.
@TheSwissWifeStyle: what CD are you on now? I'm so sorry this is such a rough time for you, but I am glad you're doing what needs to be done to care for yourself.
nectarine / 2600 posts
@Happygal: I have no idea! AF hasn't come since the mc. And I didn't get betas or anything at my last appointment. I'm a little annoyed that i don't know what's going on right now
pomelo / 5228 posts
@Happygal: Its still going well, thankfully. Though yesterday I was in a car for 3 hours wearing jeans fresh out of the dryer, so I think it caused a bunch of bruising. Luckily today is a normal work day, so PJs it is I saw your AF was still pretty light... Did you get any news about how your lining did this month?
@TheSwissWifeStyle: Boo I hesitate to ask... But have you taken an HPT to see if you have a measurable amount of HcG left? Your doctors should have taken betas to watch it go down, but I know things are different over there...
And a mini-update... I did a progesterone pool the past 3 days (my poor arms!) My first day's results are back, 11.2! The best I've gotten so far. I should get the other 2 tomorrow I think.
nectarine / 2600 posts
@Mrs.Someone: I know, and the weird thing is that we did betas after the 2nd loss. ::sigh:: So fed up. lol
I took an hpt on Nov 14 or 15 and still got a pretty good line. I don't have any cheapies left here, and "real ones" are expensive to buy
Is it sad that there's like 2% of my brain thinking/hoping that I'm still pg? Rolling my eyes at how lame I am.
pomelo / 5000 posts
@Mrs.Someone: my lining before I triggered last time was at 8, and it should have gotten a little thicker. I don't know why my periods are so light, but 5 years or so ago, they weren't this way. I'm glad to hear the Lovenox is going well. I don't have bruises, but I do have some dry skin patches where jeans have caused a problem this winter.
@TheSwissWifeStyle: not lame. It's totally normal to be hopeful for miracles. I think the internet adds to this, at least for me--I can google "BFN at 14 dpo but pregnant later" and find people who have this story, and then hope it will be my story, too.
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