How long did it take for you to lose all the baby weight/not have a super flabby tummy? What did you finally do to lose the weight/tone up or was it just time?

I gained about 45 pounds with my twins, which my OB was super pleased with. I lost 25 lbs in the first 3-4 weeks. I lost a few more in the month or so after, but I've stalled out at somewhere between 15-20 pounds over my pre-preg weight and my tummy still looks at least 6 months pregnant. With twins, I know it got extra stretched out, but I'm still having to wear maternity pants/skirts or else buy clothes way, way to big for my legs & hips to get them to fit at the waist. I'm just getting frustrated that at 6 months PP, I still look 6 months pregnant. I totally buy into the 9 months on-9 months off thing, but I feel like I'm going in the wrong direction.

I jog on our treadmill when I can after the boys go to sleep, and I know I could do better about eating healthy. I'm just curious to hear from those who didn't drop the weight right away or had a bigger tummy, did you ever get there? What did the trick? When did you start feeling more like yourself again?