After LO had her allergic reaction on Sunday and we knew she was okay and was put to bed, hubs said to me, "You know, you should really be careful now what you give her." He meant it to mean just that - careful, reading labels, etc. *I* heard it as blame and my being careless (of course now I know that no one was at fault). Since then I've been feeling very responsible, frustrated, and tired and have been very short with the hubs.

When your LO is sick or hurt, do you *fight more?

*Hubs and I don't actually fight...It's just my creating tension and being irritable.