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Yes! Love all you ladies! No one has said anything to me, but I tend to insert all my own personal negative thoughts about myself and my parenting into strangers we encounter. Meaning i assume my own insecurities must be echoed but what all these people in public are thinking. This is more applicable when my son is having a tantrum or whatever which has been happening frequently lately going from one to two kids is tough!

@bubblegum:

It makes me sad/angry how much holier-than-thou judgment some parents (and let's be honest, mostly moms) have for others. My kid isn't even here yet, and I can see it, in the snide remarks people make about WOH versus SAH (whatever side they're on) and just about every other parenting decision under the sun. If you're giving your child a safe, loving environment, it's good enough and other people should work on their own lives more and give fewer unsolicited opinions (ugh, rant over, cranky pregnant me has so little patience for this kind of stuff...)

@bubblegum: sorry you had to listen to that! Good for you not taking it to heart!

@snarkybiochemist: Hang in there, you will indeed figure it out (both of you!) in time!

@mrsbubbletea: congrats on your second baby! Most people are probably not judging you as hard as you're judging yourself. Life can be hectic with two but I hope you are experiencing the super sweet parts soon!

@periwinklebee: preach!!