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Mr. T won. He won so we could have Lorelei (I didn't want more) and now he is winning that we are done. He just has stronger opinions in the matter, and since I'm more ambivalent he gets to be the winner. He lets me "win" plenty, too, so I can't complain.

I think I won but he wasn't hard to convince. We knew we would have two - just weren't planning on having them so close together! - but I always wanted 3. He's accepted we're having 3 and like @travellingbee: keeps talking about keeping things for "the next one"

We both pretty much agree on family size (for now, at least)-- I said 2 or 3, he said 1 or 2, so... 2 it is. Our bigger disagreement was timing- I was ready to start trying a good 10 months or so before he was, but it was important that we were both gung ho, so I guess he "won" in that regards.

I guess him? He was adamant only 2, I wanted 3. So we 'compromised' when we got pregnant with #2...we already have a boy so if #2 was a girl, we'd stop, if it was another boy...we'd reasses

We haven't gotten there yet, but hell probably win. He wants two, I want three. But we will probably compromise at 2 and a dog.... Since our dog is also our baby.

I won. He was one and done and I wanted two or three. Given my current age, two seems perfect!

we both want 2 so that's not an issue (though I guess that could change down the road since we don't have any yet!). for timing, I guess he sort of won because I was ready before him, but then I ended up holding back a year to try because I realized I needed more time for my career. so when we started trying, we were both finally on board.

haha that seems boring, neither of us won or lost!

He won...before we even got married. He only wanted one and his snip snip is already set! Maybe I can convince him to adopt later...

He wanted 1, I wanted 2-3, we are planing on 2.

I guess I did...he left it up to me to have 1 or 2. So we're now ttc for #2

Not sure yet, still cooking an overdue # 1. Financially, I think two children is a good number for our family, but DH would prefer up to 4. I've told him I'll consider more if one of us gets an excellent job opportunity in the future, or we end up moving somewhere with a lower cost of living. Definitely don't need to spoil the kids, but I'd prefer better home buying options, if we had a larger brood.