do you have a set that handles your LOs better than the other?

We live in close proximity to both of our parents. My mom is our primary caretaker though so by default she is much more aware of everything that the kids need.

ILs see them once a week or so and randomly babysit a handful of times a year but it's usually after we've put them down for the night.

MIL is also physically limited to do some things for them due to some health issues.

FIL is the "can he have that" sweets obsessed papa and also slips as far as language and such around DS1.

They're both great at playing with the kids though.