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I'm pretty non-confrontational so I would never call someone out on something like that. I would never confide in them again though.

Depends on the friend and on the secret, but generally I wouldn't call someone out on it. I would just make sure to not tell them secrets ever again. I have one friend who I've never found out that she told me secrets, but she has told me so many other people's that I would never tell her something I didn't want the world to know.

I would probably call them out. Not in an aggressive way, but I would let them know that it was hurtful to me that I shared something with them in confidence and they broke my trust.

I just become a lot more selective with what I share with them in the future.

depends on what the secret was. If it was a really big deal I would have it out with them. If it wasn't too big a deal, I would be upset, probably not talk to them for awhile and then not share things with them.

I would confront and never tell her another secret!

Both.

It depends. One of my girlfriends, whom i swore to secrecy about my pregnancy, promptly told her mom. Then of course when I saw them all at a party, her mom congratulated me and i was like....wtf? Tell nobody means tell nobody. But she tells her mom everything, so i should've known.

I guess it depends what the secret is and how much she gossiped and how big of a deal it was. It would irritate me.

Your experience probably won't be anything like this, but this happened to me and I definitely called them out on it. And it was a huge disaster. Granted, it was my mom. And she accused me of trying to rob her of the "joy of becoming a grandmother" because I didn't want her sharing details about my pregnancy to a bunch of strangers. Now she is mostly in the dark about the details. It is a shame b/c I would have liked to share more of this experience with her, but I had to seek out other support people for that.

I'd totally say something and definitely keep it in mind for anything that came up in the future. Boo.