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  1. TheSwissWifeStyle

    nectarine / 2600 posts

    I'm so sorry no advice for the pain unfortunately. My first was d&c, and with my last I just used ibuprofen and heat. Worked enough I guess. Here if you need me. I know what an awful time this must be for you. Xoxox

  2. mrsmate

    persimmon / 1081 posts

    @LizSmith: I'm so sorry! I had a mc at 7wks about a year ago. I already had a 1yo so I didn't have much time to feel bad. I told myself, if this wasn't going to be a healthy baby, better this than to find out something devastating later on. And this would actually bring us one step closer to the baby we were meant to have. You'll get through this!

  3. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    I'm sorry.

  4. Crisark

    pomegranate / 3398 posts

    I am so sorry!

  5. dc yoga bee

    grapefruit / 4770 posts

    ((hugs)). I"m so sorry for your loss

  6. Mrs. Garland

    blogger / apricot / 378 posts

    I am so, so sorry. Hugs!

  7. Ree723

    grapefruit / 4819 posts

    I'm so sorry. I have no words but will be sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Hugs.

  8. runsyellowlites

    coconut / 8305 posts

    @LizSmith: I'm so sorry! =(

  9. CupQuakeWalk

    coconut / 8475 posts

    @LizSmith: *hugs* i'm so sorry:(

  10. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

    I'm so sorry you lost your sweet baby. I'm heartbroken for you and am thinking of you and your family

  11. Protectlove

    cherry / 124 posts

    So sorry dear! You sound so strong and so lucky to have a sweet, supportive man in your life. Find comfort in all the things you enjoy together- have a decadent breakfast tomorrow, go to a movie, lay in bed and read a good book, just do whatever feels good.

  12. sorrycharlie

    hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts

    I am so sorry.

  13. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    I am so so sorry. Hugggs♡

  14. Sweet T

    pomelo / 5321 posts

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  15. Raindrop

    grapefruit / 4731 posts

    so sorry! big hugs!

  16. chopsuey

    hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts

    So sorry for your loss

  17. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    I've never been in your shoes, so I'm sorry that I don't have any great advice. But, I wanted to say that I'm so very sorry for your loss.

  18. yerpie110

    nectarine / 2771 posts

    So very sorry to hear of your loss thinking of you!

  19. Mrsjets

    pear / 1699 posts

    I'm so sorry for your loss, the quote is beautiful.

  20. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @LizSmith: I'm so sorry for your loss

  21. Bao

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts

    I'm so sorry, thinking of you.

  22. Mrs. Twine

    blogger / nectarine / 2608 posts

    You are in my thoughts. Big, big hug.

  23. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. I've lost two this spring, and my heart breaks for you. My advice (which I am bad myself as following) is to be gentle with yourself. This is one of the hardest things I ever did, and I found that I had to learn to be very, very patient. Also, please don't hesitate to reach out. We are here for you. You are not alone!

    Big, big hugs.

  24. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

  25. Andrea

    GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts

    I am so sorry. Big big hugs.

  26. lilyofthewest

    pear / 1697 posts

    I'm sorry to hear.

    My pain management tips might be things you're already doing, but, just in case...

    I'd try 600mg of ibuprofen (Advil/Motrin) every 6 hours. A lot of people take less ibuprofen (less strong), or take 800mg (which doesn't really last for the full 8 hours you're supposed to wait between doses).

    You can also stagger doses of acetaminophen (Tylenol) with the ibuprofen so that you're taking one/the other every 3 hours.

    If you're doing okay with getting to sleep, but you're having wake-ups or poor quality sleep that's because of the cramping, you might try swapping your last PM dose of ibuprofen out for 440mg of naproxen sodium (Aleve). It is a longer-acting pain med than ibuprofen is -- it should help for at least 10 hours.

    Relatedly, wait at least 10 hours after taking it before taking more ibuprofen -- they're very similar meds and they're both processed by your kidneys. You can mix acetaminophen with naproxen if you need a top off.

  27. kml636

    pomegranate / 3225 posts

    I'm so sorry. I know this doesn't help, but I've been where you are. Hope you are ok.

  28. Happygal

    pomelo / 5000 posts

    I'm so sorry.

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