I’ve been going to a Sunday Pilates class at my gym for a few weeks now. It’s limited space and an extra fee, so they have a pretty strict 24 hour cancellation policy. Today I was 10 minutes late for the first time - woke up late, kid wasn’t cooperating, it randomly snowed and i had to scrape my car - and I was locked out.

At first i was pissed! Then just a combination of frustrated, disappointed, and embarrassed. I had dropped my kid off for babysitting but i hadn’t brought sneakers so I just hung out and took a shower.

The thing that bothered me the most was the desk clerk suggest a different class might work better for me in the future. No lady, you don’t get it! I work full time, i can’t come at 9:30 on a Wednesday. My son is in daycare all day, I can’t come at 6:30 on a Monday during dinner time. Saturday he’s in a basketball program in the morning so Sunday is the only day!

I feel like nobody but a mom of young children could understand. You try to do something to take care of yourself and there’s always a barrier