I was getting a pedi and noticed a little four yr old girl getting one with her mom. I have a daughter myself and envision us getting manis/pedis together when she's older but four years old? I don't know, that just seems really young to me.
I was getting a pedi and noticed a little four yr old girl getting one with her mom. I have a daughter myself and envision us getting manis/pedis together when she's older but four years old? I don't know, that just seems really young to me.
pineapple / 12802 posts
I think if it were for a special occasion or a special treat with mom that it would be fine. An every-day type thing would not fly though.
persimmon / 1116 posts
I think its okay as a special thing at 4 years. If Mama has painted nails, I know little girls would love having them painted too!
nectarine / 2280 posts
Maybe at that age we'd be doing at home mani-pedis but I'd want my LO to be a little older before we go to a nail salon.
coconut / 8681 posts
I would think it would be fine (just a simple paint job) for a special occasion but it wouldn't be a common occurrence.
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
I might be crazy but I don't see anything wrong with it. I can't wait til I have some girls to take to get our nails did!
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
I asked this question recently (especially about mani-pedi parties for little girls). Most people thought it was fine. I am with you on being not so sure!
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
I agree.. The only way I could ever picture myself doing that is if I desperately wanted a pedi and had no break from dd!
pomegranate / 3872 posts
To me, 4-5 is totally fine for a special treat. I vividly remember my mom bringing me with her when I was 5 and I remember it as a special thing and I wore the polish 'til it totally chipped off. I definitely didn't feel the need to 'keep it up' or anything like that. I'm excited to do that stuff with LO if she's into it!
ETA: I already bring my own polishes to limit harmful chemicals so I'd do the same for LO.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
There was a thread about this a while back. I think it is totally ok for Mommy/Daughter time every once in a while. Is she going to go every two weeks like me, no.
clementine / 916 posts
I got my first mani when I was 5. I felt so special! I still remember how i picked green polish with sparkles! I hope to do the same with my daughter when she's around that age!
clementine / 818 posts
I have no problem with it, and I do think its cute, will I do that, probably not because I'm cheap, and I didn't get my first pedicure until I was like 17!
ETA: we do have places locally that do children manicures for significantly cheaper than the norm though, so that is sort of a fun thing...
pomegranate / 3003 posts
I think it's okay for a special occasion, but I wouldn't want her to become obsessed or used to the salon. Working in an elementary school, I find it frightening when girls are rocking acrylics to 5th grade graduation.
persimmon / 1116 posts
@deerylou: say whaaaaa??? No way! My mom wouldnt even let me shave my legs in 5th grade!
pomegranate / 3980 posts
I don't see a problem with it. My sister took my lo with her and got her nails painted at the salon. I wouldn't let her do it regularly since I don't ever go myself but I don't see a problem with it for special occasions.
nectarine / 2220 posts
I don't really know how I feel about this... I don't want to raise a daughter that's caught up with appearance at that age. And I'm cheap and have actually only ever had a manicure myself for my wedding... so I kind of feel like I might not take my daughter for one until she has a concept of budgets and the savings of doing your own manicure vs. getting one done. I'm gonna be such a lame mom...
grapefruit / 4800 posts
I've only ever gone to the nail salon a couple times in my life and it does seem a bit chemically to me. But at 4 or 5 I probably would say fine if it was just a once in awhile thing. I'd make sure they weren't going to touch her cuticles though, I'd be really upset if someone did that to her.
pineapple / 12234 posts
I don't mind once in awhile but I probably won't do it until 7/8. I don't think she would appreciate before that age either.
hostess / papaya / 10540 posts
I think the biggest thing I would worry about is the type of chemicals they would be using on such a small child. And the nail polish, is it safe if your LO is a nail biter? I've known 2 or 3 year olds who have gotten mani/pedis and I'm not sure how I feel about it either. I guess it's not something I would personally have to worry about unless I had a little girl of my own.
eggplant / 11287 posts
I don't get what could possibly be wrong with it as a special treat??
pomegranate / 3706 posts
I'd totally take my 4 or 5 year old with me for a pedi. In fact, I can't wait until my DD is old enough. It's a special treat, not a regular thing, and a fun bonding, mommy-daughter day.
pomelo / 5321 posts
I don't think it's a big deal. I wouldn't make it a regular thing but I think it's a fun thing to do for a special treat. I would stick to polish only (no acrylics).
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
You know what, sometimes as parents you have to pick your situations where you bend the rules. What if mom had no child care options but needed a mani pedi? Sure it's not essential, but I am currently hiding my chipped pedi in closed toe shoes.
clementine / 916 posts
@looch: Haha.. That is 100% the reason why I got my first mani.. Bc my mom needed one and no one was around to watch me.
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