I'm currently living with my fiancé until I recover from delivery of our baby. I am 4 weeks postpartum and he is amazing but only one problem. His mother currently lives with him. She's here until she moves back to her home country since she sold her place and needs a temporary home. Out of the goodness of his heat he offered her a place to live since he had extra room. I really like her but she is getting one nerves. She acts like queen of the castle. Won't let me cook or clean, makes snarky remarks about everything I do. She laughs that my hair will get ruined in the rain so why bother curling it. She conveniently cleans the stove when she knows I want to use it. She uses products that irritate my lungs to clean the house (I'm allergic to almost any strong scent), tries to hide my things or "relocate" so I have to search all over the damn house to find it. Wears strong perfume when holding the baby so the baby reeks of it. Takes the baby when I don't want her to, puts pacifiers in the baby's mouth even though I've told her I'm doing the LAM birth control and it interferes. She jokes to the baby in a language I can't understand about my parenting methods. It's driving me crazy! Any advice?