Several times in the past week, people have mentioned my baby shower and how they'd like to come, I will get lots of stuff, etc, but no one has offered to throw me a shower! So I feel awkward responding and just kind of nod/say thanks, yeah, sounds great! I don't enjoy showers but wonder if I'll be really sad if no one throws one. Maybe someone will offer after we find out the gender this week?

At what point in your pregnancy did people start planning your shower/ask you about throwing one? I am 19 weeks along and I don't know if that's still too early or if I should assume that I won't be showered!