So after LO (13 months) not napping at all yesterday, I started nap training today. He had been nursing to sleep and then staying asleep during the transfer to the crib but that stopped working. So I am doing CIO with checks right now. Question, he keeps throwing his lovey over the crib as soon as I walk out. Do I keep giving it back to him? It seems mean to not give it back but I feel like it's a game to him now...

ETA also if he doesn't sleep for his first nap at all, do I wait an hour and try again? Or just wait for his regular 2nd nap time?