with LO#1 I mostly loved the ergo w/ insert, but also had a ring sling which I used in the first 3 months. even then I found it a little hard on my back (much sooner than the ergo would have bothered it) - she was always big for her age, but still, 2-3 months so not that big. I also always had a little trouble with neck support - feeling like I needed to support with a hand. which might just have been over-thinking it.

I want to love the ring sling because it's less cumbersome, cooler, etc. Mine from #1 is hot pink so I'm pretty sure I'm buying a new one for little brother. Is there a brand you love? Any tips on doing it better in general? Mine now is a linen Sakura Bloom I believe.

Thank you!!