So my first shower was thrown by two college friends, I invited all my friends in an hour radius (I don't have any family nearby and all my coworkers are guys)... and no one came except my hosts because they all have lives and/or forgot. I was a little bummed, but honestly, the invite list was less than 15 and I'm not much of a gift person, so whatever.

For this baby, I have 2 SILs living pretty close now that want to throw me a shower because they feel guilty about missing the first one.

It is a really nice gesture, but I just don't have a lot of people to invite and I'd hate for them to work hard on something no one shows up to again. And we certainly don't need anything since they're only 2 years apart and we're going team green again.