I'll only be 11 weeks, so normally I wouldn't announce this early, but I feel like I already look pretty pregnant and it will be hard to hide anyway. So anyway, my SIL is having a birthday party next weekend for my niece who's going to be two. It'll probably be the only time this summer that we will see MIL at all, so if we're going to tell her in person, it has to be at this party. SMIL and FIL will be there too and we're seeing both my parents that weekend as well, so it's a good time to tell everyone.

BUT it would definitely still attention away from the birthday girl. Is that inappropriate? If we don't tell them now, we'll have to tell MIL over the phone since we probably won't see her until Labor Day. And they'll probably all be thinking I'm pregnant anyway based on the state of my stomach. What would you do?