i posted this in general TTC to get opinions from people who maybe aren't PG yet, but i'd like advice all around. i'm telling my best girlfriends that i'm pregnant this weekend, but i know for a fact (we all do) that one of my friends is actively TTC. she could be pregnant for all i know (since i'm just telling them now at 11w and i haven't told them that we were definitely starting TTC).

my gut is to just tell her along with all my other friends at the same time, but i also don't want to put her in an awkward spot if it's not going well or if she just found out and then our friends ask her.

what do you think? am i over thinking this? i want to be sensitive without acting like she should be upset or something. i know she's been trying since about march/april if that makes any difference.