Alright, DH and I are both teachers but my school year ends a week before his, so I decided that I will take our kids to go see my sister for a few days during the week. My DH said that sounded good, but he was concerned that he might not wake up in time for work (he's a deep sleeper) and is worried since I wouldn't be there to wake him up just in case. I was like "what?" I'm not trying to paint him as an unreasonable/ unappreciative person and we are here to support each other but I pump 4x a day at work and take our kids to and from daycare everyday (among lots of other things.) I don't need another thing on my plate.