I just wanted to thank everyone for the very kind words and tremendous showing of love and support which has been such a comfort to me and my family and really helped us cope.
We went in for a selective reduction on Twin A yesterday. The procedure went smoothly and I am at home on bed rest for a week just to ensure that nothing triggers labour. Twin B is fine so far and I hope and pray he continues to be.
My doctors have been very supportive and have gone out on a limb to reassure me that this is the right choice and help me find peace of mind. I am so grateful for my healthy almost 3 year old DD and hope and pray that all goes well and that i am able to keep Twin B cooking. Thanks agina to everyone. I read every single one of your comments even though I wasn't able to reply to all, I truly appreciate it.