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Oh my gosh I am so sorry you are going threw this
I have no good advice but I wish I could give you a hug.
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I can't even imagine. I'm so sorry you went through this. I'd definitely go to see your doctor just to be safe. But mostly, I just wanted to chime in and say I'm so sorry. Even if you weren't planning to be pregnant, I can only imagine that it's still hard.
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Hi everyone, thank you all so much for the support, love & advice. I reread all comments numerous times whenever I felt down. Thank you:)
Real quick: I ended up going to see my family doctor in the AM and she let me know I had actually been 9 weeks pregnant (based on the photos of the specimen & a blood test). She called me about an hour ago with this news so excuse me if I am still flustered:
basically she said I must have been a few DPO when I got my depo shot. The hormones from the shot were too large of a surge and basically depleted my uterine lining ...which cut off nutrients from the fetus slowly but surely until I completely miscarried. I have passed everything at this point and I have minimal cramping & minimal bleeding.
I am going to leave it at that for now. I don't know how to think or feel but right now, I feel OK & I am trying to see this as a blessing in disguise because I was not emotionally ready for #2. I also see it as a wake up call to track my cycle and not to depend on BC 100%. Ahh.....this explains the Pamela Anderson breasts I've been toting around these last 3 weeks.
Anyways----thanks, you guys, for being an awesome support system! *hugs to all of you*
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First of all, I'm so sorry you are going through this!
ETA: I just saw your update so nothing I wrote before was really helpful. Just wanted to give you a cyber {hug}
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@TurtleDoves: I can understand not really knowing & passing a large abnormal clot. We were ttc when I had our MC. I was only 5 weeks & didn't know for sure till after I passed the tissue. Its so scary! I'm glad you were able to have answers. A MC is a MC and no matter if it was a planned pregnancy or not its going to be difficult to deal with for a while. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers. ((Hugs))
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I'm glad that you found out what happened and I hope that it gives you some kind of closure. You really could not have known and its really freaky that this kind of thing could happen. *big hugs again!*
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I'm sorry you went through this!
lots of good thoughts to you ..
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So sorry you had to go through that! I couldn't imagine =/ *Hugs*
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@TurtleDoves: I am sooooooo sorry!!!!! Holy moly! I can't believe this and I'm so sorry!!!!
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Just passing along hugs and prayers for you xo
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@TurtleDoves: Am ordering wandfos...opks & pg! I got a stuffy nose the past few nights, which only happened to me during pg and I, like you, am not ready for #2! I would freak the f out! I'm so sorry you'r3 going through this anyway:(
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@TurtleDoves: I'm so sorry about all of this. Will be thinking of you, hugs.
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So sorry this is happening but happy you went to your doctor. Take care of yourself this week, you've had a terrible shock that you totally didn't deserve and need to recover. Big hugs.
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I can't even begin to imagine what a shock this has been. I'm glad you got some answers and am sending you lots of love. Big hugs.
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I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I can't even imagine how shocked you must have been. I'm glad your doctor was able to give you some answers. Hugs to you!
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I'm so sorry you went through this. Thinking of you an your husband.
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I've been thinking of you all day. Hugs, and be kind to yourself through this!
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So so sorry to hear of this. Hugs to you.
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I'm so sorry you had to go through this... I can't even imagine how hard this must've been for you. Hope you get some much needed rest and comfort this week.
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no advice, but omgah mama wanted to send you my thoughts and prayers and hugs and support and everything else you need. hope you get the answers you are looking for here and that the doc can get you in asap!!
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What a crazy situation. I wouldn't know how to feel, either. Big hugs to you.
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I am so sorry for your loss! Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.
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I am so sorry. Will be thinking about you.
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@TurtleDoves: oh my. My mc was exactly the same. Pain and contractions. Passing the sac of membranes was the worst moment of my life. It gets better! Talking about it and time really helps.
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Forgot to mention I passed everything successfully on my own with no medical intervention except an ultrasound to comfrm pregnancy loss and a few blood tests to show hcg levels dropping.
Make sure you take a few days for yourself. This kind of loss is really traumatic.
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I'm so sorry!
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@TurtleDoves: Big hugs friend. I'm so sorry. I'm glad you were able to see a doc and get some answers.
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@TurtleDoves: I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I read this the other day and couldn't post from my phone. I am glad that your doctor was able to give you answers. Remember if you need someone to chat with you have my number.
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@TurtleDoves: I am so sorry you and your husband had to go through this. I'm glad you got into see the doctor and make sure everything was cleared. I was told that I didn't have to go to the er unless I couldn't handle the pain with Motrin.
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i'm so sorry you had to go through this! what an awful experience. hugs to you and your DH!
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@TurtleDoves: My thoughts are with you.
I had a similar situation. Just a few days after my BFP, I also passed "something" (I was about 5 weeks along) but did not have cramping or bleeding. Panicked, I called my OB and described what had happened and they thought it was just a clot. When I finally had my first OB appointment around 9 or 10 weeks, I saw my son for the first time on the sonogram and everything was fine. Two weeks later I had another sonogram and that's when the technician noticed that there was not only our baby, but an empty sac. It seems that I was carrying twins and lost one of them. Our little boy was born as healthy and beautiful as can be right on schedule. But sometimes I wonder about the twin. It was a strange feeling learning that I probably had two babies. We will never know what happened.
I hope you find peace.
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@TurtleDoves: keeping you in my prayers! So sorry you are going through this. *hugs*
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Prayers coming your way! I hope you find peace and and strength in healing.
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I'm so sorry you had to deal with this emotional and confusing experience
I'm thinking of you!
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Eep, I would be an emotional wreck. I wish you the best in getting through this!
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Oh gosh. Definitely call your doctor and get checked out. Also, give yourself some time to process things. You didn't even know what was going on, but you still experienced a loss. Totally understandable that you must be having lots of very mixed feelings right now.
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I am so very sorry, what a scary experience.
((hugs))
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I just am seeing this now. I'm so sorry that this happened and hope you are feeling ok.
I have no good advice but I wish I could give you a hug.
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