As most of you know, we lost a baby at 33 weeks. This was late enough that we'd had all of our showers and everything. I'm pregnant again, and I want to do some sort of "shower" later (only 11 weeks now, so yeah, totally getting ahead of myself, but I love planning this sort of thing, and I was kind of sad I didn't get to help plan my showers). Except clearly we don't want to come across as asking for more gifts (we're even having another girl, so everything is 100% usable). So for invites and everything, we'll be clear on the no gifts, but I still think I want to avoid the term "baby shower" entirely to make it extra clear. So for invites and things, what would you call it? Just a "celebration" is the obvious answer, but any other ideas? And suggestions for best wording on the no gifts thing, maybe that's cuter than just "no gifts please"?

Also, thoughts on what to do? Most of the time at my showers was spent opening gifts (which is apparently pretty common in my region). And it seems like SO many games get made fun of or are considered terrible and boring and all that. Anyone have any fun suggestions?

ETA- Also, any fun theme ideas? We did "rainbow" last time, since it was supposed to be our rainbow baby, but... yeah. So not doing that again.