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I think that sounds pretty good to me! At that point A wasn't "napping" but more like falling asleep randomly but no more than 30 or 45 minutes at a time. He is only 6 weeks now, so not much more experience than you haha, but he very adamantly puts himself to bed at 9:30, no earlier. I think at this point I'm ok to go with it. Probably as he gets older I'll try to push it earlier, maybe 15 or 30 minutes at a time. On good days, he generally wakes up around 1 or 2 and around 4 or 5.

My response will be "what sleep"?

Dude I woulda killed to be in your shoes!

Sounds normal, in that I don't really think there is a normal! Around 4 weeks I think LO was also going to 'bed" around 10...we didn't really have a routine, so when I say he went to bed, I mean that's when we moved him into the bassinet in our room, rather than wherever he'd been hanging out before. He was up every 3-4 hours at night, so 2-3 wakeups. He usually fell asleep while nursing, or while in the stroller. Honestly, for the first 3 months, and especially the first 6 weeks, whatever works is the right thing to do!

She went to bed between 9-10. Waking up every two to three hours. Naps were only long if we held her.

Oof, you're doing better than we were. His "bedtime" was around 9 at that age, but he was waking up every couple hours still. And getting him to nap was just impossible. It felt like all we did some days was work at getting him to fall asleep, just to have him sleep for like 30 minutes. He's 15 weeks and he's just now getting to the point where he can fall asleep on his own SOMETIMES.

Hang in there, this too shall pass!