I'm about to be 20 weeks and can still only rarely feel the baby move. My midwife says it's normal, but so many places online talk about feeling the baby move regularly by this point. I can sometimes feel the baby if I really focus when I'm lying in bed at night, but I never feel him/her when I'm doing other things or not specifically paying attention.
So, I'm not asking when you first felt the baby move, but when did you begin to consistently feel the baby without focusing on it?