If a friend tells you they're pregnant right when they find out, would you get them a gift right away or wait until their 12 weeks? I'm planning on getting a friend some pregnancy books like Belly Laughs and Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy, and maybe a cute maternity shirt, belly band, etc.

I think I'd rather not get gifts for myself until I was 12 weeks because I had already suffered a miscarriage and I'm paranoid about those things. But I don't want to seem like I'm not excited for my friend when I really am!

What would you do?