Bee and I don't watch TV together that much these days, but when we do we usually watch DVR. So we'll watch either Castle (our show) or American Idol (her show)... and she doesn't usually mind just sitting through the commercials (or checking mail during that time). So that forces me to fast forward through the commercials, so I end up controlling the remote for that part.
Who controls the remote when you and your SO both watch TV together?