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DH got in big trouble last year. Not exactly for not doing anything, but we did dinner the weekend before, and I said I wanted at least a card on the actual day. Just a card. Aaaaand he didn't get one. I cried. Which is ridiculous, but I was upset. So this year he already gave me two cards, and has one for the day of as well. He says I'm not allowed to bring up last year again since that makes up for it.

Honestly, yes.
But should I be? No. We never do anything and I'm not planning on doing anything, so it's completely irrational of me, but that's the truth.

I would be sad if we missed dinner!

I'd be shocked if he DID do something.

I told him not to waste his time or money!!! No poimt.

I will be upset if I don't get a card. That is all I care about.

No because we've never celebrated it, our dating anniversary is the day before so we usually celebrated that day, won't be doing it this year though.

Maybe we'll do a dinner out over the weekend? But we're not planning on anything big, but we're both pretty terrible about holidays and birthdays, so I'd not be disappointed.

Last year he got me a nice flower, and I picked up cupcakes from the bakery at the train station on the way home. Totally about the grand romantic gestures around these here parts.

Not at all. Valentine's is not something I celebrate.

I expect at least an acknowledgement of the day with a card and maybe a bag of cinnamon hearts, but I don't expect anything big and have told him multiple times over the years to not buy roses. The markup is ridiculous and I prefer other flowers anyway.

@lovehoneybee: Same!

Nope. She works and we don't usually make a thing of VD. I did get her something that I would have gotten her anyway but the timing worked out well. Its Layla McCalla of the Carolina chocolate drops first solo album. Turns out they are playing on Friday and my wife is soo sad about working. I hope it cheers her up.

we usually just go to dinner. but i don't mind if we don't. we usually have our date weeks, so i don't need to celebrate that particular day.

I wouldn't be normally. But he told me he planned a surprise date and setup ds sleeping over at my moms. So if itbturns out to be nothing then yes ill be disappointed lol. Highly unlikely tho

We went out to dinner this weekend and considered it our valentines dinner. So we are just planning on havering a fun dinner with the kids, I'm not expecting anything else.

Nope. We don't go all out on V day.

No, we've been really overwhelmed this week, and I'm not sure we'll even be able to go out...I'm definitely not expecting a card or flowers or anything. No biggie.

No, I think VD is a dumb holiday and prefer to just celebrate our anniversary. I made him pinky swear that we would ignore VD this year.

Nah, he's working all night.

Hmmm. As long as he says something about it I will be happy. One year we agreed not to do anything for Valentine's day and he didn't even call (he was out of town) and we normally talk like 3 times a day when he is gone. I think that is the only time I was upset, mostly just because I felt lonely though.