We've decided to buy a used minivan for when the twins arrive, but we're stuck on how much more we're willing to pay for extra options. The top of the line models with sunroof, leather seats, heated seats, and dvd (the extras I care about) are about $3-4k more than the middle trim models, with comparable miles.

We can definitely afford either, but the lower cost of the mid-level van would be a bonus since I'll be a SAHM soon.

So do you think having your favorite luxury items in your primary kid car is worth the extra money?