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Would you consider going by your middle name?

  1. Honeybee

    pomelo / 5178 posts

    My middle name is a (masculine) family surname, so it doesn't really work for a first name. For a long time, though, I thought I would go by my first name and middle name only if I ever needed a stage name or pen name. I still might keep it as a backup name, just in case.

  2. mrs. wagon

    blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts

    I kind of do... it's my Korean name so sometimes relatives will refer to me by my middle name! Same with Wagon Sr. and our kids. Kind of a win/win

  3. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    I never had a middle name until I got married; then I moved my maiden name to my middle name. So no?

    DS has a pretty cool middle name. Hubby is kind of hoping he'll go by it or use it!

  4. MarieJ

    pear / 1579 posts

    I love my middle name. It's my screen name, so yes!

  5. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    No, it's not that i dislike it but its not a name I would want to go by. it's a good middle name!

  6. Springtime

    pomegranate / 3204 posts

    No, I don't dislike it but would rather go by my first.

  7. anbanan15

    grapefruit / 4681 posts

    There was a point in my life where I wished my first name was my middle. For some reason I hated my first name growing up, but now I couldn't imagine my middle as my given name...it sounds like a middle name.

  8. Mrs. Grizzly Bear

    GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts

    Yes I didn't change my middle name to my maiden name when I got married.

  9. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    No. It's normal (Marie) but I prefer my first name.

  10. kjpugs

    grapefruit / 4862 posts

    Nope, my middle name is my mom's first name. I didn't love my first name growing up (Kelly) but tried to change it (Kat... yes, I tried. It did not stick) and then went by KJ a lot. But I never even thought to go by my middle name.

  11. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    Nope. It's a middle name that wouldn't be a great first name. And no way for my old middle name, I really disliked it. We have our LO first and middle names and hopefully he loves since he even has several nicknames to work with.

  12. Mrs. Jump Rope

    blogger / coconut / 8306 posts

    I don't, and wouldn't... my aunt did, though, and my old CW does!

  13. Raindrop

    grapefruit / 4731 posts

    Do you mean going by your middle name instead of your first name?

    Like if your name is A B C. You would do by B? Or do you mean going by your first and middle name together like A-B? Some of my co-workers go by A-B. ^_^

    I have a bit of a childish first name... It's great for a cute little girl but as a professional it's not super great.

    I considered changing my first name to my middle name legally (IE just switching them) but when I did some research into it, it was very tough.

    I tried just saying that I'm my middle name but when people found out my real first name they would just refer me to that. No win! ^_^

    When I got married I thought I could change my first name along with my last name but that's very frowned upon because it looks shady to completely change your whole name and it was a lot more paper work and reasonings to do so. So thus I'm stuck with my first name always and forever.

    By all means it's not super terrible... it's cute... but cute is not what you really want as a "grown up"

  14. ValentineMommy

    pomelo / 5791 posts

    DH calls me by my middle name sometimes, but I wouldn't go by it for everyone. I like it as my special nn from him though

  15. cmomma17

    honeydew / 7811 posts

    @mrbee: sure! I like my middle name almost as much as my first. They are almost equally common, middle is probably more of a "classic" girls name than my first. They both start with an E.

  16. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    can't! i don't have a middle name!!!!

  17. mfa_lady

    pomegranate / 3921 posts

    i go by a nickname of my middle name (i've always gone by that name, my parents started calling me it as soon as i was born) and it's kind of a big hassle! i mean, i love my nickname, but REALLY wish it was my first name. when i got married, i kept all three of my original names and so now have four - so confusing! haha.

  18. NavyRN2012

    persimmon / 1447 posts

    @zippylef: my mn is Nichole as well. I don't see too many people who spell it with an "H".

  19. loveisstrange

    pineapple / 12526 posts

    @NavyRN2012: My parents took the traditional H out of my first name and put it in my middle.

  20. heffalump

    GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts

    No way. I hate my middle name.

  21. IcebergMom

    persimmon / 1295 posts

    I do! I go by my first and middle name together!

  22. HeartAbandoned

    clementine / 933 posts

    My first name is super-common, and when I left for college I considered going by my middle, which is also my mom's maiden name. I chickened out, though!

    My mom goes by a nickname for her given middle name (she dropped her given first name when she got married). My dad goes by his middle name, and my grandmother and all 7 of her siblings go/went by either middle names or initials! One of my uncles on that side also goes by a nickname for his middle name. My other grandmother goes by her middle name, and her daughter/my aunt didn't have a middle name until she got married, and moved her maiden name into the middle spot. All that family history means I fall firmly into the "name the baby what you intend to call it" camp.

  23. skibobrown

    pomegranate / 3388 posts

    I don't have a middle name. We gave DD my great grandmother's name as her middle name. It's a beautiful name IMHO, but it's kind of dated, so I doubt she would ever want to use it as the name that she goes by.

  24. MediaNaranja

    pomegranate / 3244 posts

    I never thought about it, but my middle name is lovely and I would use it. Although I would prefer the full name (Catherine) to its nicknames (Cate or Catie). Of course at tbis point it would be pretty pointless to switch since everyone knows me by my first name, myseld iincluded!

  25. lemondrop

    bananas / 9118 posts

    No, it's my mom's maiden name, so not very nameable

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