So Hubs grandmother e-mailed me saying "We want to see Xander!" and then asked if we were available on the 14th to come over for lunch or dinner. I said we were free for lunch and asked if noon would work. Her response:

"Glad you can make it on the 14th. I will have to get back to you with a more specific time as we will have guests from Conn. leaving (hopefully) that morning!"

And then a couple days later:

"I finally got a definite that my friend from Conn. will be here all weekend. Of course you are still welcome to come on Sunday but perhaps you would prefer to come another time."

WTF lady! YOU were the one that picked that date! If it wasn't good for you, WHY did you invite us for then????