And you don't know what neighbor owns the car or what neighbor the car may be visiting.
And you don't know what neighbor owns the car or what neighbor the car may be visiting.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
@mediagirl: that's rude. I'm assuming someone is having a football watching party? But technically that's the easement and doesn't belong to the homeowner, right?
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
This isn't my lawn but it is someone in my neighborhood.
pomelo / 5257 posts
That is just weird... Is there not enough room to park on the actual street?
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
@regberadaisy: Nope. We have to maintain it so it is our property.
pear / 1503 posts
That's rude. Why can't they just park on the street? If it were my lawn, I'd call the city bylaw office. They handle towing, and that sort of thing. But since it's not your property, I wouldn't do anything.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
If it were my lawn and didn't know who the car belonged to, I'd tow them.
nectarine / 2085 posts
That is quite rude if there is space on the street, but usually the 'parking' (the space between the sidewalk and street) is public property, so I don't know that a tow truck would remove that car unless it had been abandoned there. Most suburban lots end about where the sidewalk is, but the landowner still has to maintain the sidewalk/parking. At least, that's been true of every place I've lived.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Although you may be responsible for maintaining that piece of grass, I am pretty sure that is actually public space. You don't own the sidewalk either, but you would pressure clean the dirty part in front of your house.
I wouldn't say anything in this case or try to find the culprit. If they parked on the lawn on the opposite side of the sidewalk I may investigate further.
blogger / grapefruit / 4836 posts
They honestly probably feel like they are doing something good by moving further out of the street. If it was a constant thing and was damaging the property in some way I would try to figure out who it was so I could explain that it was causing harm and ask them to stop, but otherwise I wouldn't do anything about it.
persimmon / 1479 posts
My first thought was to break out the sidewalk chalk and leave a message. A bit passive aggressive, but an option
That's so rude!
persimmon / 1363 posts
We maintain that spot by our house but it's the city's property. In any event, people park there with their wheels up all the time and it wouldn't occur to me to do anything about it. There's no harm being done.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
Nothing. Stuff like that doesn't bother me. It would probably annoy my dh though.
pomegranate / 3809 posts
Looks like they are trying to get out of the street. Since it's on the other side of the sidewalk and not my side of the sidewalk, I consider that public/city property and it wouldn't bother me. Just like we're responsible for snow removal on the sidewalk in front of my house, the side walk is still not technically my property. If they jumped the sidewalk and was on my property, they'd be getting towed.
watermelon / 14467 posts
I'd let it go. Technically, it's public property even though you have to maintain it.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Even if it isn't our property, it is against the bylaws of our neighborhood to park on the curb or the yards.
Those of you who said it wouldn't bother you, it wouldn't bother you if you spent hours and hours every year to keep your lawn nice and some inconsiderate person comes up and puts tire marks in your lawn? I don't understand that.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
Totally normal around here. We have to pull off the road to keep enough room for traffic. And I wouldn't want my car side swiped and loose a mirror. Assuming it's just for a couple of hours I wouldn't worry at all.
Ps even if you maintain a piece of that land it may not be part of your property.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@mediagirl: nope I think that's just part of living in a neighborhood. I don't thjnk that person was like hey let me drive up on that lawn. They just tried to pull off the road so traffic could get through.
watermelon / 14467 posts
@mediagirl: Tire marks in my grass do not bother me. If they left huge ruts from spinning their wheels, then yes, I would be upset. A few hours of a tire sitting on the grass isn't going to ruin your lawn.
grapefruit / 4321 posts
No, it wouldn't bother me. A car parking on the grass for a few hours is not going to ruin the grass forever. It especially wouldn't bother me if it was my neighbor's lawn. Regardless of the bylaws, no need to be the neighborhood rule police.
pomegranate / 3350 posts
If they were actually on my lawn I would maybe call the police to see if it could get towed. But I probably wouldn't even notice if they were parked on the curb like your picture. People did that in front of our old house all the time and it was only an issue when trying to grow grass and we had it sectioned off which doesn't look to be the case here.
nectarine / 2667 posts
What I would do is nothing. That area isn't my property so I couldn't do anything even if I wanted to. I don't think a tow-truck would tow it, since it belongs to the city.
It really wouldn't bother me, because I don't think too much damage would be done from random, short-lived tire marks. But, I suppose if your HOA has rules about it, the homeowner could contact them and they would impose a fine of some sort? Of course, there's the effort of finding out who it is, follow through with the HOA, etc....it seems like a lot of work to me.
honeydew / 7444 posts
That street looks really wide so I don't think this is a case of the driver trying to get out of the street. I don't even see cars on the other side! I think it's just someone who is a bad driver and couldn't care less about being on the lawn.
If it only happened once I would be a note on their windshield. Next time I would have them towed or ticketed.
pomelo / 5129 posts
I wouldn't say anything about a one-time occurrence. NBD in my mind.
I would only be bothered if it happens regularly. Then I'd ask the HOA to send out a notice about it and ask people to remind their guests not to park on grass.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Wouldn't bother me, there are much worse things that would stress me out. They won't be there forever and grass won't be permanently damaged. #firstworldproblems
pomelo / 5789 posts
Fairly normal around here. I don't consider that part of "my lawn", it's the public part. Bigger things to worry about!
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Wouldn't bother me but I'm sure my FIL would leave a note!
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
Looks like the one in front is also on the grass? Honestly I don't think I'd notice that. Maybe. I might SMH about it but I wouldnt think much more about it.
pear / 1616 posts
It wouldn't bother me. If there was a curb w a step and they're halfway on the curb then that'd bother me. But as it is no. Where we live, that part of the sidewalk is hoa maintained so not our property.
persimmon / 1363 posts
@mediagirl: I do spend a lot of time on our yard and it's me that maintains it, and it just... doesn't bother me. We also have people trek across our driveway and across the corner of our lawn because so much so that a path is worn into it because we live across the street from a busy bus stop and there is no sidewalk on our side of the road. That also doesn't bother me at all. I think it might be a personality thing though, because it bothers my sister even when she's just visiting.
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
It wouldn't bother me unless it was happening often. People park like that trying to get out of the street as much as possible. Not a great idea but not a big deal to me personally.
pear / 1593 posts
Seems pretty harmless to me. Only would bother me if it happened multiple times a week.
grapefruit / 4355 posts
Wouldn't bother me. That space isn't technically your property and s couple hours of tires sitting on grass really isn't going to harm anything.
nectarine / 2148 posts
I get it. The first time I would personally let it go, but it's likely they are at an immediate neighbors house so I would go try to find out whose it is and ask to move it. My parents had this happen to them and my stepdad turned the sprinklers on and soaked the cars....who left their windows down. Also, even though the first few feet of the property can be used by the town for sidewalks, etc. I don't believe actually means it's public property and anyone can use it. If someone was standing in that same spot it's still considered trespassing.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@mediagirl: Just curious, when you say its against the bylaws of the HOA to park on the curb, where do they expect guests to park? Are there designated visitor spots? We used to live in an area with pretty strict HOA and you just couldn't park on the street overnight. Even though the streets were pretty wide, during the day people would still often park this way and security would just make sure they were moved by night.
grapefruit / 4045 posts
I would park myself in front of my front window and wait to see who it was. Its rude to park in front of someone else's house, unless its a one time thing for a party. But parking up on the grass? Never acceptable. I'd probably approach the owner about that issue.
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