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@Greentea: Well put.

Eta: I had an ex that was really into it and would hide it - I was against it. DH was never into it, which is perfectly fine with me.

He does. I don't care as long as he clears his cache (like bookish I don't want it coming up) and doesn't leave it up on the tablet.

I agree with @meredithNYC that this is a little tricky because I feel like the whole world is pornographic half the time. A morning commute on the subway can be pretty graphic. A memory of an ex can be pretty distracting.

We're very open about the ongoing daily struggle of keeping our erotic selves focused on one another and avoiding indulgence in fantasies of other people. This includes avoiding pornography, but is hardly limited to that.

Doesn't bother me, it's something we've each enjoyed solo and together.

DH isn't the type really. Though i did discover his teenage stash when we cleared is parents house out hehehe. He got well ribbed for some of the titles. I have watched it but i find it more funny than sexy im afraid. Especially those with 'story' lines. It would upset me if i was in a relationship with someone who let it affect our own sex lives.

I don't mind and I know he looks at it. My only thing is I don't want to see him looking at it. We both have desktops in our office and I got tired of glancing at his computer and seeing him perusing his daily porn sites so I just ask that he doesn't look at it while I'm in the room. It doesn't affect our relationship or sex life so I'm ok with it.

He doesn't. Not sure I would really care though. I guess I'm glad he doesn't watch/look at it ... But yeah, not an issue here.

@sarac: Very well-said.

I have no idea if DH looks at it. In 7+ years I've never even thought about whether he does or doesn't... so I guess it doesn't really bother me since its never affected our relationship.