DH and I got a BFP for LO2 recently. Recently my job has been taking me to my parents' city every few weeks and I've been spending the night at their place. My next trip is next week and I'll be almost 6 weeks. I don't want to announce until 12 weeks or at least until I've seen the heartbeat.

My mom gets really stressed out when she hears someone is pregnant before 12 weeks. She does not want to hear until 12 weeks. My SIL announced "too early" with both of her pregnancies and even though everything was fine I heard about how my mom "doesn't like it" every day until 12 weeks.

When I was pregnant with LO1 we visited my parents at 8 weeks. They noticed I couldn't stomach anything and called me on it when DH was in the bathroom. I was pissed that they called me on it when they are the ones that dont want to know. I straight out lied and said I wasn't but they still had their suspicions. When we did announce at 12 weeks over Skype they already had a sign made that said "we knew.". Kind of took the wind out of our sails.

So this time around should I just get a hotel and avoid my parents completely? I know they'll be hurt but it's justified, right? They'll notice right away if I stay there. The next time I travel I should be 9 or 10 weeks and might announce then if things are going well.