Hellobee Boards

@mamimami: I liked this one -
http://www.amazon.com/Setting-Limits-Strong-Willed-Revised-Expanded/dp/0770436595/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1452697360&sr=1-2&keywords=strong+willed+child

this had some good stuff too

http://www.amazon.com/Explosive-Child-Understanding-Frustrated-Chronically/dp/0062270451/ref=sr_1_17?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1452697466&sr=1-17&keywords=strong+willed+child

I'm not help because I'm not a book reader... I ended up just going to a child psychologist because I had no idea how to handle/react/guide my oldest.