and are planning to have more baby(ies)... do you want a girl? are you afraid of gender disappointment?
i LOVELOVELOVE being a boymom. but ideally, would like one of each! i don't think i'd be sad at not having a girl (as i never had a sister and grew up with my lil bro and was a tom boy too!), my younger brother is super close to our mom and so is dh with his, so i don't have any fears about not having the m/d relationship; and i'm deathly afraid of the teen years (esp for girls) and i can def see myself as a 100% boymom.
but i'm definitely a bit afraid about having gender disappointment in the moment of the scan. feeling sad, then feeling guilty that it takes away from future LO#2 if he is a boy!