With my pregnancies with DS1 and DS2, I announced on social media after our anatomy scans. With DS3, I was planning to do the same but then we lost him at 18 weeks. I did announce on social media that we had a third son and he was born sleeping with a few details, and I'm glad that I did that.

I haven't said anything on social media about our new son. I passed my anatomy scan with flying colors and am 20 wks tomorrow, but still am not sure I want to put it all out there. I feel so vulnerable even at this point....but at the same time feel guilty that I'm not celebrating this pregnancy.

Did you announce your pregnancy after loss on social media? Were you happy that you did?