This has got to stop. E is 2 this month and she still doesn't STTN. But worse than this is the fact that she still wont go to sleep without an hour and a half of screaming.

For the last year, we have been letting her "CIO with checks"... but its not getting any better. At all. 6 months ago, we tried letting her CIO with no checks and she screamed until she was sick - all over herself, the bed and the floor. So we never tried that again.. But this isn't working. Me and DH are both at our wits ends - we cant take any more - so we have decided to try CIO with no checks again.....

....... She is currently screaming. Really, hideously screaming. And its not letting up.

Is this how its done?? I cant help but think that this cant be right - she's gasping for breath and screaming the house down. It has been 25mins so far. Do I just leave her screaming until she crashes out??