If only...
I could get us into the daycare that has a part-time rate...
I would get the raise I'm due at work...
And I could take on a few more hours...
We would have $700 more a month without any significant lifestyle changes.
If only...
I could get us into the daycare that has a part-time rate...
I would get the raise I'm due at work...
And I could take on a few more hours...
We would have $700 more a month without any significant lifestyle changes.
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
I have so many if onlys. Some from the past, some current.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
@Mrs. Jacks: your daycare doesn't? My local one does and pretty sure the one my nieces goes to does as well.
...we had money for a tropical vacation!
squash / 13208 posts
If only I could get my DD Potty trained I would have to spend $$ on diapers anymore!
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
@locavore_mama: They don't offer one... Maybe if I ask?!
papaya / 10473 posts
So many current ones, so many past ones!
I always wish DH and I had chosen different fields of work.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
we have a boat we bought years ago when we were young and stupid. so if only we could sell it, we'd have $1200 more per month between insurance, slip rental, and payments. It'll be paid off in the next few years but we'll still have insurance and slip rental, ugh.
pomegranate / 3643 posts
@2PeasinaPod: I feel you on the overdue raise. We didn't get scheduled increases this year because our non-profit took on a new ED. But I feel I deserve a merit based raise, but didn't think it was the time to ask since the board had recommended no raises.
I am going to ask for more hours though. I figure it's an easier sell, plus more money than a raise. Although it means more work for me!
cantaloupe / 6885 posts
My daycare would let me pay for only mornings, then I could go back to work halftime when my mat leave is up.
coconut / 8861 posts
If only I could sleep in occasionally, sell our condo right away and move to the burbs, had enough time to get decent meals on the table for my family. Yep, I've got a lot of them.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
If only I could convince my parents to move to Nashville. I would be the happiest lady around!! I would love to see them more (and for M to see them more). That way I wouldn't have to worry about them being far away from me as they age. And while I wouldn't impose full time child care on them... my dad is fully retired and it would be SO nice to have him around as back up when day care is closed or LO is sick.
bananas / 9899 posts
If only we had decided not to buy and renovate our new office, we could have bought the perfect house we saw a few weeks ago...
In the end our decisions are wise, but man my DH and I are still talking about how awesome that house was, just barely out of our reach. :\
nectarine / 2220 posts
... We hadn't purchased our apartment right at before the bubble burst we could afford to sell it without losing everything we put into it
... We didn't live in an outrageous cost of housing area
And sometimes wish we'd chosen different fields of work too. Sometimes I think we should have chosen jobs for the money and done the "helping society" on the side.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
if only....
We would not have gotten into credit cards in college we would have way more in savings instead of paying those off.
nectarine / 2994 posts
I have a few! (think they're all money related)
If only we had the money for a second car
If only we had the money for an overseas holiday
If only we had the funds to buy a house!
Plus there are lots more but I'll stop there
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
@LuLu Mom: you're not alone. we're still paying..will be for years, I am sure!
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
If only a perfect house in our desired neighborhood would come on the market!
If only I could get the job I just applied for.
If only we could finally get off the daycare waitlist I signed up for as soon as I got a
(baby girl is 10 months old...).
pineapple / 12234 posts
So many. Mostly in the past but I guess we wouldn't be where we are today and we are so happy right now (even if we still have a few financial worries).
pomegranate / 3003 posts
If only teachers made what they deserved. That would solve about 99% of our financial woes.
coconut / 8430 posts
If only we had poured our life savings into the stock market in 2008 the day that Lehman Brothers went under...
pineapple / 12802 posts
If only our cars would stop breaking and being money pits.
I only we had more room in our house.
If only I could afford to stay home.
If only people would pay their bills to my husband on time... Or at all.
If only I could stay at my company and make the 20,000 more a year I know I could somewhere else....
pomegranate / 3643 posts
WOOHOO got more hours at work. It won't really change our lifestyle at all. I was working 7/7/6 hrs M-W, and now I'll just do 3 8hr days. Now if I only could get into the new daycare that's cheaper and by our house, and didn't have to drive an hour a day getting to and from there...
GOLD / grapefruit / 4007 posts
@jedeve: You should call local churches to see if they offer a Mothers Day Out program!
if only...
we could pay off our credit card
i could afford to just work part time (3x a week)
we could put more money into savings each month and not have to dip into it
pomegranate / 3231 posts
Not really. There are things I would like, and if I won the lottery I would stop working and upgrade certain things, but I am pretty satisfied with our current lifestyle.
honeydew / 7091 posts
If only I could convince my sister to move to KS, then my parents would follow and I would have free daycare! (My mom would be thrilled to watch my kids, and I would be thrilled to let her!).
nectarine / 2433 posts
If only we could have the LO we long for without having to give use up a good chunk of our down payment with no guarantee of a positive outcome
pomelo / 5258 posts
If only we had offered slightly more on one of the dozen houses we wrote offer on last year... we wouldn't have spent $110k more for less house this year.
grapefruit / 4136 posts
If only...
I could work part time
Our student loans were paid off
I could get a new car...I'm tired of praying mine won't break down
pomegranate / 3809 posts
If only I hadn't sold my shares of apple I bought in 09 @ 77 for 125.... or google that I had @270 for 330....
pomelo / 5509 posts
- If only I could get a new job with better pay (I haven't, not for lack of trying!)
- If only DH was working full time at his old salary, instead of in grad school for another year with a pitiful stipend
- If only our geriatric dog would stop getting sick and racking up thousands of dollars in vet bills
- If only DH's best friend hadn't just planned a destination wedding that's going to cost us a few thousand dollars...
Did I have enough?
All that being said, we're really not doing too badly, despite our obstacles. Just gotta keep chugging along!
honeydew / 7091 posts
@babyjmama: Sis still lives at my parent's house/boyfriend's mom's house! I keep telling her they could afford a place out here!!! She's not buying it though... "It's too hot!" Psh
pomegranate / 3643 posts
@PurplePumps: My husband's grandmother got in on Apple at $8 a share (she had a thing for gambling). She died, and his grandpa doesn't want to touch it. He's like, "nah, that's Paula's money!"
pear / 1879 posts
If only...
- I could stay at my current job (which I really do love-- most days-- but earn about $20k more!
- I had not taken on massive debt to get my master's degree which, most days, I don't feel like I am really utilizing
- I didn't feel like the only one in the world (OK, gross overgeneralization!) who was always playing catch up and just not enjoying life because of these financial woes
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
If only DH got a promotion this year with a phat raise and one year closer to a new job and not traveling.
If only we saved more money before buying our house
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