Our official anatomy scan with the perinatologist is July 1st but my OB said that he'll do an U/S and look to see if he can find out gender at my next appt which happens to fall on our 2 year wedding anniversary! I'll be 17 weeks so I'm hoping that he'll be able to see and baby will cooperate

The problem is that my husband will be working and not be able to go to the appt with me. I will probably have the doctor write the gender (if baby cooperates) on a piece of paper to put in an envelope so that DH and I can find out together. Should I just give the envelope to DH for us to open together after/before dinner when I give him his anniversary card and present or...... I was thinking I could have a baker make a cupcake with blue or pink inside for our anniversary dessert. Or I can give the paper to my sister and have her purchase and wrap a girl or boy outfit for us to unwrap.

What would you do? I'd love all suggestions!

P.S. I never got to tell DH that I was pregnant in a cute way for any of my pregnancies. They're always high risk in the beginning because of my recurrent MCs so we're always scared to get excited right away. I really want this to make up for that lack of surprise!