So as we contemplate potentially ttc for#2 next year (maybe - can you sense the uncertainty!) I was wondering how moms and dads without family/close friends nearby manage with 2 or more. All if my family live on another continent and dh's family are a 4 hour plane ride so right now when we need a break, we have to hire a babysitter.
I worry that adding another into the mix will also add a lot of pressure without a support system esp considering I am likely to have a c section.
So parents without a support system - how do you manage?