nectarine / 2047 posts
@MrsRoo: this is exactly how I felt too. I would've been thrilled with either. You said it perfectly with "the loss of the possibility of life with the opposite gender got to me".
pomegranate / 3764 posts
Mainly surprised, because I could have SWORN G was a boy. I called her a 'he' the first 16 weeks, haha. When they said girl, I almost fell over. And even though we'd confirmed at plenty of scans, I still had to ask the doctor to check when she was born.
I'm not sure what to feel about this one, as my priority is healthy baby - part of me is terrified for it to be a boy, because I've LOST a boy, and I just feel strange about it all. Ultimately, we'll just be overjoyed regardless, it's just strange not to know what to expect!
pomegranate / 3401 posts
Ecstatic! I really wanted #1 to be a girl, and she was! For #2, I didn't really care either way but when we found out she was a girl I was thrilled...sisters!
kiwi / 612 posts
I was really surprised both times! First time, I thought girl and he was a boy...second time, I thought boy and she was a girl! My husband has a cousin that was told boy and it turned out to be a girl, so I wasn't totally sure/believed it either time until they were in my arms.
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I really really wanted a boy for #1 and was ecstatic finding out at 17 weeks that's what we were having. For #2 I didn't really have a preference but was leaning towards boy, just because I thought it would make things easier and I LOVE having a boy, but when we found out at 19 weeks it was another boy I was surprisingly sad that it wasn't a girl! I blame hormones
pomelo / 5573 posts
With my first, I was pretty sure I was having a boy - everybody we knew had girls and I was pretty sure it was time for a change. With my second, like a lot of other people have said, I would have liked to have one of each but I also wanted my son to have a brother, and my son is so totally delightful, so I was going to be happy and sad either way.
pomegranate / 3350 posts
Honestly, I was majorly disappointed when I found out with both my pregnancies. It wasn't gender disappointment but just that I had such high expectations for the moment and both times we found out when I was not expecting it at all, so there was no excitement leading up to it.
I will say that I had like a twinge of disappointment when I found out my second was also a boy but now I can't even imagine it any other way. I love both my boys to pieces and their relationship with each other is so amazing to watch. I'm sure that as soon as your baby boy is in your arms you won't have another thought about it!
eggplant / 11861 posts
I was so excited when I found out DD was a girl I could have cared less either way!
This time I feel like I am going to be thrilled either way again!
If it is a girl Yay Sisters, if it is a boy, 1 of each so far As we say we want 3!
cherry / 204 posts
With my first we were team green and I dreamt we were having a boy. When the midwife held my son up for me to see all I could say was "it's a baby. It's my baby" and I didn't really realize we had a boy for a few more minutes.
With this baby we found out at the anatomy scan. I'd dreamt a few nights before that we'd have a girl, and that's what the scan says too!
I am excited to have a daughter, but part of me was daydreaming about how fun two little boys could be. We're open to the idea of more than two kids though, so it's not impossible. I think my husband would like two of each, but physically I'm not sure about going through pregnancy again.
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I never know how to respond to people who say "oh perfect, one of each!" I'm sure it's just one of those inane things people say just to say something but it really annoys me. Probably because they assume this is exactly what I want- which it is- but why would someone assume two boys would be less joy?
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
We both really wanted a girl. When she said it was a girl I yelled "Are you serious?!?" I thought she was joking with me.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
I had the slightest twinge of disappointment but I can't imagine feeling that way about my son. I don't care that he is a boy, I just love being his mama.
watermelon / 14467 posts
I was so excited when I found out H was a girl! I don't have any brothers so the thought of a boy scared me a bit. This time I feel like it's a boy. H says it's a girl. We'll see in about 5 weeks!
coconut / 8861 posts
I was excited and shocked by our first boy. DH hoped and hoped for a girl partly based on the expectations of his family. The second time around, I thought for sure we were having a boy and we did. Having two boys is awesome. When I learned it was another boy, I was excited about not having to buy many clothes or anything like that. Their personalities are completely different. It's great. I would have loved to have a girl, but truly don't miss not having any one. I don't want a third.
pear / 1930 posts
Disbelief. I really felt like it was a boy. LO's gender wasn't apparent on the anatomy scan and I got MaterniT21 after a finding in the scan. I was so sure it was a boy that I even asked after she was delivered if it was a girl or boy!
persimmon / 1367 posts
I was at work (Harmony test results by phone) and I did a happy dance! I was hoping for a girl and that's what I got.
I work in an area that is monitored by video cameras, and there is always someone watching. After a few seconds of the happy dance, I remembered this fact and started laughing uncontrollably thinking about the person watching the video footage and seeing me!
(Eta. My job is not as creepy as it sounds - I work in corrections)
pomegranate / 3411 posts
Sad/disappointed both times. I always dreamt of having a daughter and I have 2 boys. I love them more than I could possibly imagine though and wouldn't change a thing now. And I love that they are brothers. I am considering a third now but DH is not on board yet and I'm not sure I am either.
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