I'm still happy being a WOHM. I think it makes me the best mom to LO.

I work very regular, full-time hours. So I'm glad I can come in at the same time and leave at roughly the same time every day. I don't have to be on-call when I'm out of the office. I can't even check my work email at home, and I don't want to

The only source if constant struggle is our monster commute, which takes 3 hours a day. It is a buzz kill on the soul. It also puts a ton of miles onto our car. And we chose to take toll roads which run us $200 a month. Just on tolls! Plus all the added gas and required maintenance. We have to do oil changes every two months because we reach the mileage limit that fast.

I want to move LOL. I love our house and I love where we live, but the commute is expensive in a variety of ways. Plus I want those 3 hours back, damnit! I could get a lot more done with that time.