DH and I were thinking that if I can find a job near home, we might be able to buy his mother's house. She plans on putting her house (the house DH grew up in) on the market by the end of the year and moving to Florida where her DH lives.

We would probably rent from her at first but could potentially buy it from her. Maybe see if we can do a Rent-to-own kind of thing.

If we were to move home, we would have to have a super long commute to afford a small townhouse. It's pretty expensive to live in the Philly suburbs.

As for my parent's house, I wouldn't. My dad has done some sketchy things to the house and I would feel really nervous living there.

Months ago when this idea came up, I was a little weirded out by it. I was thinking that the house could never be ours. It would always be her house and we were making changes to it. Glad I'm not worried about that anymore.