I can't remember... but we did it pretty early on. Maybe right after we got married?
I can't remember... but we did it pretty early on. Maybe right after we got married?
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
Right before the wedding - we got a joint account for wedding expenses.
eggplant / 11287 posts
Before we even got engaged!
I think we had been dating for a year.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Never fully combined but we set up a joint account with direct deposit of a % of our paychecks a few weeks after the wedding. We still have our own accounts for fun money.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Right after we were married. I'm a big believer in joint finances for married couples.
grapefruit / 4703 posts
Not until about 2 years after we got married... just because we we're lazy and it's so much paperwork.
pomegranate / 3160 posts
Ha, we still haven't done it... We keep saying we're going to and we just...never do. Oh well, it works!
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
We officially did it about 5 years in when we bought our first home together before we got married.
pomelo / 5220 posts
probably a few months before the wedding we went "all in" - we owned a house before that and shared our checking account but we finally consolidated credit cards and savings accounts too.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
When we moved in together! We opened a joint account to pay all our joint household bills!
pomegranate / 3779 posts
We opened a joint account when we were buying a house together (prior to our engagement) but we still both have separate accounts for spending money and so that he can send money to his family - ATM mugging occurs way too often there for me to be comfortable with his brothers having a card for our joint account.
coconut / 8861 posts
Right after we married. It was one of DH and mine's hangup. Changing my name and combining accounts at the same time made it easier.
pomelo / 5469 posts
When I stopped working/became a SAHM. I thought I would find it tough, but actually it turns out I don't have a problem spending money
GOLD / squash / 13576 posts
Probably about a year ago. So, after we had been married for 1 year.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
We got married in May and still haven't done it, we're just lazy
We haven't had an issue with paying for the wedding & buying a house even w/ separate accounts; we see it as one anyway.
pomegranate / 3809 posts
A few months after getting married, only because he was tired of having to do mental math on all our separate accounts.
persimmon / 1165 posts
When we got engaged. But we were young, so it was pretty easy.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
After we got married. Waited till my name change was official and then went to the bank.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
When we moved in together. I got a big lecture from the banker about being independent when we went to combine our accounts.
pineapple / 12526 posts
In the first year after we got married, after we moved to the UK.
cantaloupe / 6059 posts
We did it the week after we got married. I wasn't working though, and had just graduated from college, so it was more like he added me to his account!
coconut / 8483 posts
When we were dating and moved in together. We'd been together for almost 7 years, but were only 22 so we never did it earlier because we didn't have any money, lol! So pretty much once we got a place, both had "careers" everything was joint.
honeydew / 7303 posts
As soon as we got married! We set up a joint account while we were engaged for wedding funds and it became our main account after the wedding.
papaya / 10343 posts
A few months before we got married, but we had already been living together for almost a year at that point.
nectarine / 2631 posts
We still haven't combined (4 years married) it just seems to work for us this way- so we are going to keep doing it!
pomegranate / 3113 posts
We started a joint checking and joint savings right after we got married, but still keep our finances mostly separate. We might combine a bit more now that LO is here, but we'll see how things go.
coconut / 8079 posts
we didn't combine finances until we were married. but we also didn't live together until after we were married. we both paid for different parts of the wedding/honeymoon etc.
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