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  1. LindsayLou

    persimmon / 1322 posts

    He'd do just fine. Baby would be fed and happy, maybe a bit tired as she doesn't sleep as well for him. The house would be messy, but he's not great about picking up after himself to begin with. He wouldn't ask any questions, and would do this things differently than I would, but it doesn't matter as long as baby's well cared for.

  2. Caly

    nectarine / 2765 posts

    He's the SAHD, so, there wouldn't be any issues. The state of the house would be a crapshoot depending on how wild the girls got...which would be no different if I was the one home with them.

  3. iheartleopardprint

    apricot / 343 posts

    FI solo parents every Sunday, and I have never got any questions. He always does great!

  4. Torchwood

    pomelo / 5607 posts

    I'd come home to a baby in a disposable diaper instead of cloth, but the house would probably be cleaner than if I had been the one with her. She's more willing to sleep without being held when I'm not around.

  5. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @regberadaisy: this is exactly like my DH! It's so annoying But seriously, I don't know how he does it.

  6. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    Not really any questions, but the state of the house might be questionable lol.

  7. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    DH has had LO solo on Monday nights this semester and I always come home to find all the toys picked up. I often make a plate for LO's dinner before I leave, but if I didn't it's no big deal. He doesn't need any special instructions!

  8. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    It's no issue at all - I've been able to leave them alone since very early on. DH makes a point to
    not call when I'm out, even if there's drama. After I complained about the house being like a bomb site whenever I went out, it's definitely tidier nowadays 😁

  9. mrswin

    nectarine / 2433 posts

    @jlm22: @regberadaisy: THIS! He puts me to shame. He is home on pat leave with our DD now and he gets sooooo much more done then I ever could. I swear he employs elves to help get everything done

  10. LilSprinkles

    clementine / 778 posts

    DH has been left alone with DS since day one and has never had any problems.

  11. ScarletBegonia

    persimmon / 1339 posts

    He solo parents every other Friday, and does a great job of it, but for some reason it bothers me that he rarely takes our son out, they just play at home either in the backyard or inside. He has never been a man who is comfortable going out by himself (to meals, activities, etc) and this has now extended to him and our son. When I have him at home for the day (the alternate friday) we are out all morning, barely make it home for nap and then out again all afternoon, I would go nuts at home but my husband *might* make it to the store. The house is in great shape and my son is happy as anything, loves his daddy!

  12. FaithFertility

    eggplant / 11861 posts

    He would be just fine! Yeah house might be messy if he cooks and such too, but I can live with that

  13. SweetCaroline

    pear / 1718 posts

    DH can solo parent just as well as I. As she's gotten older and he's started to nail the Daddy thing even more, I am super impressed to find the house cleaner than I left it.

  14. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    He spends as much or more time with him as I do so he wouldn't need instructions! But he's always messy so the house would be a mess.

  15. MrsRcCar

    grapefruit / 4712 posts

    DH would have a lot of questions and would probably text or call me a lot. He would try and after the chaos slowed he would be fine. He has never been the solo parent to both boys.

  16. Corduroy

    pomelo / 5258 posts

    Oh dear, I think he'd do fine but LO2 is four months and he still hasn't had the two alone except for one hour when I had mastitis.

  17. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    Oh he's more than capable. Always has been and he's never called when I've been out other than once when he couldn't find the sleep sack.

    He's his parent just as much as I am.

  18. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    The kids would have probably eaten something I don't approve of and the house would be a wreck, but he would be able to manage.

  19. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    He does it. The house looks like a bomb went off after but the kids are happy and fed. He would need to ask me when the 11mo needs milk (since he still nurses) but otherwise knows the drill.

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